vampchick Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 I met this really great guy online about 2 weeks ago. I know we are still in the finding things out stage and all but we still havent spoken on the phone. Last week, I suggested that we meet face to face. Needless to say that we didn't because something came up on his end. Well, last week, we texted back and forth monday through friday then I didn't hear barely anything on Saturday and Sunday. Sure I texted him, but he never responded. He finally text me on sunday evening saying that he hasnt heard from me in a couple of days and wanted to know if I was still interested in him. I told him I was and that I thought he got annoyed with me for texting him so much and that I was waiting on him to text me. Trying not to be needy or desperate, which I'm not. Anyways, the same thing happened this week. We talked great Monday through Thursday and then Friday and Saturday I barely heard a thing from him. I went to the dating site, to delete my account, glanced at his and accidently sent him a friend request. He finally text me saying that its late and what am I doing on the site? I told him that I accidently hit it while I was trying to find a way to delete my account cuz I didn't want it anymore and he could check if he wanted. Did I totally mess up this potential relationship with him? I think I did with that happening. What did I do wrong? I need HELP!!!!
Forever Silent Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 I met this really great guy online about 2 weeks ago. I know we are still in the finding things out stage and all but we still havent spoken on the phone. Last week, I suggested that we meet face to face. Needless to say that we didn't because something came up on his end. Well, last week, we texted back and forth monday through friday then I didn't hear barely anything on Saturday and Sunday. Sure I texted him, but he never responded. He finally text me on sunday evening saying that he hasnt heard from me in a couple of days and wanted to know if I was still interested in him. I told him I was and that I thought he got annoyed with me for texting him so much and that I was waiting on him to text me. Trying not to be needy or desperate, which I'm not. Anyways, the same thing happened this week. We talked great Monday through Thursday and then Friday and Saturday I barely heard a thing from him. I went to the dating site, to delete my account, glanced at his and accidently sent him a friend request. He finally text me saying that its late and what am I doing on the site? I told him that I accidently hit it while I was trying to find a way to delete my account cuz I didn't want it anymore and he could check if he wanted. Did I totally mess up this potential relationship with him? I think I did with that happening. What did I do wrong? I need HELP!!!! Hey vampgirl, budding relationships are hectic to say the least and will involve plenty of parnoia and anxiety about the possibilty of an relationship. The best thing to do is stay come and and keeps your wits about you. I highlighted the areas which I thought were interesting. From the information you have posted on this forum, I will assume you have been the one iniating contact and he is the one who has been awol (non-respondant)? Then, after a few days of no contact he suddenly calls you and asks if you are still interested in him. Maybe the fella did not get a clue from the previous texts you sent him or I will assume that this guy has a certain "air" about him which leads me to my next point. When he texted you that next time and asked what were you doing on the daing site, I was offended. It is highly inapporpiate for a single man to text a single woman asking what are they doing on a dating site late at night. It is especially offensive since his first message since non-response is "what are you doing on a dating site?". My advice is to move on and find a better guy who will actually respond to your message and actually take the time out of their schedule to meet you. But again I am only going off the information you presented and I am sure there will be differing opinions among other members of Love Shack. I hope I have been somewhat helpful.
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