jmarsh777 Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 I dated a boy for 9 months and we broke up in January and neither of us, at this point, are really sure why we did break up, because we had a really great relationship. We stopped talking for a while and he started dating someone exclusively and I was dating a lot of different people. We started talking again a couple weeks ago, he told me that he knew the relationship with his girlfriend wasn't gonna go anywhere and that he was going to break up with her. We talked much more frequently, but he was having trouble breaking up with his girlfriend. It was clear to me that I was still in love with him, and he said he had very strong feelings for me as well. Even still, he said that he isn't sure that he can be in a relationship with me even after he breaks up with his girlfriend because he feels like something is wrong with him and he's really bad at relationships. That being the case, I felt like I should move on from him, but it's been impossible to. I've tried not talking to him, I've tried not thinking about him, I've tried dating other people, but I can't stay away from him. He broke up with his girlfriend today and called me to talk about it. He was so sad about it and it really hurt me to see him hurt over another girl. I don't know what to do and I'm about to pull my hair out. Any advice is appreciated.
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