Author xpaperxcutx Posted July 22, 2012 Author Posted July 22, 2012 (edited) How do we even know if the text went through, his battery isnt dead. My IPhone has tourettes I swear and people get my texts I sent 10 hours later. Causes mass confusion. Becauses the chances of his phone being nroken is 1 in 10 and he doesn't seem like the type to forego technology let alone his phone. Did I mention he's a cop? Also I admit Ive been an ass befote when it comes to contact. Ive given some poor excuses to people who I never gotten back to its somwhat similar to thee fade. Edited July 22, 2012 by xpaperxcutx
kaylan Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 Well, now you know for next time. Dont stress it and just move on. If he doesnt view you as more than a friends than its really no biggie.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted July 23, 2012 Author Posted July 23, 2012 Thats great, his profession has nothing to do with it. We have the same profession actually but technology has nothing to do with his profession. Alex I'm not calling out his profession as a fault but I know some cops have a a very busy work schedule. balls on his court. I doubt I'm hearing from him.
2sunny Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Becauses the chances of his phone being nroken is 1 in 10 and he doesn't seem like the type to forego technology let alone his phone. Did I mention he's a cop? Also I admit Ive been an ass befote when it comes to contact. Ive given some poor excuses to people who I never gotten back to its somwhat similar to thee fade. Oh no! The guy who was controlling and pushy - showing major concerns? That guy from a few months back that I thought you dumped? I vote for no more communicating with mr creepy guy. He seemed terribly intimidating with a scary purpose. Why would you even want to text him?
2sunny Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Becauses the chances of his phone being nroken is 1 in 10 and he doesn't seem like the type to forego technology let alone his phone. Did I mention he's a cop? Also I admit Ive been an ass befote when it comes to contact. Ive given some poor excuses to people who I never gotten back to its somwhat similar to thee fade. Oh no! The guy who was controlling and pushy - showing major concerns? That guy from a few months back that I thought you dumped? I vote for no more communicating with mr creepy guy. He seemed terribly intimidating with a scary purpose. Why would you even want to text him? Maybe I'm thinking of a different poster... I hope so!
Author xpaperxcutx Posted July 23, 2012 Author Posted July 23, 2012 Oh no! The guy who was controlling and pushy - showing major concerns? That guy from a few months back that I thought you dumped? I vote for no more communicating with mr creepy guy. He seemed terribly intimidating with a scary purpose. Why would you even want to text him? Maybe I'm thinking of a different poster... I hope so! Who? No this a new guy and whom I thought woulx be a potential. I dumped my. Ex a while ago
bobsmith76 Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Okay so I sent him a text saying that I was thinking about him and I was hoping he was having a good vacation. Grave mistake. I sent it just now at 12 in the morning. Hes in Miami so he's practically in the same time zone. Does this make me come off as desperate? Don't worry about that. Just imagine how illogical it would be to this the following: 1. I love X but she just sent me a text message saying she misses me 2. therefore I don't love X If he really loves you then he adores the fact that you're texting him.
SmileFace Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Don't worry about that. Just imagine how illogical it would be to this the following: 1. I love X but she just sent me a text message saying she misses me 2. therefore I don't love X If he really loves you then he adores the fact that you're texting him. Love? Bwhahaha.... What?
snug.bunny Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Okay so I sent him a text saying that I was thinking about him and I was hoping he was having a good vacation. Grave mistake. I sent it just now at 12 in the morning. Hes in Miami so he's practically in the same time zone. Does this make me come off as desperate? Desperate in what way? That you were thinking about him and you hope he is having a nice time...? That's not desperate. He is on vacation...And, you met this guy like what, two weeks ago? I don't think he is ready to declare his undying love for you just yet. And, maybe his interest isn't high at this point, but that doesn't mean, it can't/won't be down the road. Give it some time, wait until he gets back, and see how it goes.
TG1 Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Desperate in what way? That you were thinking about him and you hope he is having a nice time...? That's not desperate. He is on vacation...And, you met this guy like what, two weeks ago? I don't think he is ready to declare his undying love for you just yet. And, maybe his interest isn't high at this point, but that doesn't mean, it can't/won't be down the road. Give it some time, wait until he gets back, and see how it goes. I agree with this
Author xpaperxcutx Posted July 23, 2012 Author Posted July 23, 2012 Desperate in what way? That you were thinking about him and you hope he is having a nice time...? That's not desperate. He is on vacation...And, you met this guy like what, two weeks ago? I don't think he is ready to declare his undying love for you just yet. And, maybe his interest isn't high at this point, but that doesn't mean, it can't/won't be down the road. Give it some time, wait until he gets back, and see how it goes. Okay some ppl r taking this out of context. I don't want to proclaim his undying love for me. It's more of the fact here comes a guy I'm attracted to and I'm opening myself up for rejection. I come across these guys who come on strong and back off fast and I have my guard up. A guy who is lukewarm is unpredictable. I don't want to chase but it's also mostly a waiting game. Because he could very be one of those ppl who likes your company only to forget about you when you're out of sight out of mind.
bobsmith76 Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 he could very be one of those ppl who likes your company only to forget about you when you're out of sight out of mind. That's always a possibility, any guy can be like that. You can't catch any fish if you don't go fishing. you have everything to gain and nothing to lose by pursuing him. You have nothing to gain and a lot to lose if you don't pursue him. If he rejects you, just shrug it off and forget about it.
Star Gazer Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 Star is it a necessity to always be politically correct? I wasn't politically correct. I was factually correct. Good grief. 1
Author xpaperxcutx Posted July 24, 2012 Author Posted July 24, 2012 I wasn't politically correct. I was factually correct. Good grief. I don't understand why you come into my threads if you have nothing of substance to say. 1
Author xpaperxcutx Posted July 24, 2012 Author Posted July 24, 2012 Did they respond? Nope. We had talked abput getting together when he got back but I haven't heard a peep.
kaylan Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 Okay some ppl r taking this out of context. I don't want to proclaim his undying love for me. It's more of the fact here comes a guy I'm attracted to and I'm opening myself up for rejection. I come across these guys who come on strong and back off fast and I have my guard up. A guy who is lukewarm is unpredictable. I don't want to chase but it's also mostly a waiting game. Because he could very be one of those ppl who likes your company only to forget about you when you're out of sight out of mind. Im confused. Its bad when guys come on strong since it scares you off, which is understandable since coming on strong can be a bit much for many people. However, you go on to state your dislike of a guy whos lukewarm when he just met you. I agree with snugbunny. Give this time. I say lukewarm is just fine with someone you just met. Especially since you have insecurity issues and gear up to run away when a guy comes on stronger. Whats wrong with a "waiting game"? You barely know the guy. Give this some time, and have some patience and get to know him. And in my honest opinion, if you like him, dont be afraid to chase. Men and women should go after what they want. If you get rejected, then thats life. At least you tried and wont have 'what ifs'.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted July 24, 2012 Author Posted July 24, 2012 Im confused. Its bad when guys come on strong since it scares you off, which is understandable since coming on strong can be a bit much for many people. However, you go on to state your dislike of a guy whos lukewarm when he just met you. I agree with snugbunny. Give this time. I say lukewarm is just fine with someone you just met. Especially since you have insecurity issues and gear up to run away when a guy comes on stronger. Whats wrong with a "waiting game"? You barely know the guy. Give this some time, and have some patience and get to know him. And in my honest opinion, if you like him, dont be afraid to chase. Men and women should go after what they want. If you get rejected, then thats life. At least you tried and wont have 'what ifs'. Let me clarify. I dislike guys who come on too strong because it can be a clear indicater he's after sex. I don't dislkie a guy who's lukewarm I just said they're more unpredictable. It can go either way of the spwctrum meaning tgey can like you one day and then poof! Disappear the next. I just don't want to put myself in a position with high hopes and then become disappointed.
Kofybean Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 Okay so I sent him a text saying that I was thinking about him and I was hoping he was having a good vacation. Grave mistake. I sent it just now at 12 in the morning. Hes in Miami so he's practically in the same time zone. Does this make me come off as desperate? Its funny how women fein ambivalence in dating, and then wonder why men don't care about what they think more. When will people grow up and stop playing games and say what's on their minds. Yes. Men are robots that never ever need to know someone exist in the world that is thinking about them, so never ever send text messages in a concerned manner.
Star Gazer Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 I don't understand why you come into my threads if you have nothing of substance to say. Oh, but I have. I have commented on the most interesting parts of this thread.
Kofybean Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 ...It's more of the fact here comes a guy I'm attracted to and I'm opening myself up for rejection.... haha... I love this one the most. I will check back to see what kind of sympathy you get for this since men have to do this to you all the time.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted July 24, 2012 Author Posted July 24, 2012 Its funny how women fein ambivalence in dating, and then wonder why men don't care about what they think more. When will people grow up and stop playing games and say what's on their minds. Yes. Men are robots that never ever need to know someone exist in the world that is thinking about them, so never ever send text messages in a concerned manner. If men are robots then all the more we have to fein ambivalence. If I truly allow my emotions to run my judgment ppl will call me cuckoo. Just like men are told to not gwt hung up over a female, girls are always told to not fall too fast. It really is all a game of who cares the least.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted July 24, 2012 Author Posted July 24, 2012 haha... I love this one the most. I will check back to see what kind of sympathy you get for this since men have to do this to you all the time. I don't think I was looking for sympathy but I've been burned just as much as men so I don't see why u need to make this a gender issue. You sure like to troll don't u?
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