xpaperxcutx Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 Okay so I sent him a text saying that I was thinking about him and I was hoping he was having a good vacation. Grave mistake. I sent it just now at 12 in the morning. Hes in Miami so he's practically in the same time zone. Does this make me come off as desperate?
Pasttense Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 Huh? One text like this is not going to make you come off as desperate.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted July 22, 2012 Author Posted July 22, 2012 He told me I could text him whenever but I didn't get a response. My last text was pm Monday.if iphone have nationwide coverage then I know he's gotten my text.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted July 22, 2012 Author Posted July 22, 2012 My point is is late night texting ever a good thing? Remember its a sat night sun morning.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted July 22, 2012 Author Posted July 22, 2012 Do you expect a text in return? Wouldn't the courtesy be to reply? Or would u think a text like that not warrant one. I told myself I wasn't going to snoop or bother him while he's on vacay.
kaylan Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 If you are just wishing him a good time, its no big deal. And you really expect a reply when a guy is on vacation, in the summer, late at night, in Miami of all places? Hes probably out enjoying his night with his buddies...and that could mean hes meeting other girls. So tbh I wouldnt obsess over this too much. Just wait for him to get back to you. Its late...get some rest. Paper, remember what everyone always tells you about taking things slow? Well slow down your thought process and just relax. Its one text, and its late at night. No biggie.
Star Gazer Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 NYC and Miami aren't "practically in the same time zone." They ARE in the same time zone. Good grief. 3
Author xpaperxcutx Posted July 22, 2012 Author Posted July 22, 2012 NYC and Miami aren't "practically in the same time zone." They ARE in the same time zone. Good grief. Star is it a necessity to always be politically correct?
leftfordead2 Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 You're too paranoid and uptight, it's just a text at 12am, relax...IF he is interested, he wouldn't be put off by just one text..
2sunny Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 You didn't ask him a question - so there was no need for him to reply...
somedude81 Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 Wow so much worry over one unanswered text; sent late at night too.
Eternal Sunshine Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 You didn't ask him a question - so there was no need for him to reply... They always reply, if they are interested at all... 1
Pyro Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 They always reply, if they are interested at all... I would hope so. If that were me and I was interested I would have replied back. 1
Author xpaperxcutx Posted July 22, 2012 Author Posted July 22, 2012 I would hope so. If that were me and I was interested I would have replied back. Yeah that actually makes sense. People are telling me that he's either out partying or he's with another girl.... so I'm confused. The thing is, if I was out and the guy I like texts me I would reply to.
amantis Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 I have to say the same ... if i was interested in you , i would have replied ... But give him some time and hear the excuse , i bet he is going to tell you something that happened with his phone or he went to the hospital.. some bs like that
amantis Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 oh i forgot to say , if a chick i was interested sent me a sms saying that she was thinking about me , it wouldnt matter at what time she sent the sms , not many girls do that , i would love it So no you didnt do anything wrong 1
Eternal Sunshine Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 A guy once gave me this excuse "It was so cold that my fingers were numb and I couldn't type the reply to your text" 2
dispatch3d Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 this isn't a good trait. Date guys that respond to your text messages. Why the hell would you even want a relationship with someone that doesn't give you the time of day. /end thread.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted July 22, 2012 Author Posted July 22, 2012 Thanks guys. I guess I'm letting this one go. I shouldn't feel ashamed for texting him. O have a guy friend who texts me all the time and he even replies to every single one of my texts.
kaylan Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 I still think people are over-thinking 1 freaking text. The guy is on vacation, anything can happen with a cell phone, it was late at night, and him and OP havent had much chance to establish anything meaningful yet. People are jumping the gun on one little old text wishing someone a good vacation. Are this many people that needy? 1
SmileFace Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 It was one text. That for all you know he didn't get. However you shouldn't be this invested in this guy to truly give a crap. He didn't reply - big deal. However stop over thinking it. He is on vacation. If he replies great , if not - oh well. However it is too early to tell. Either way it really shouldn't bother you this much or make you feel ashamed.
TaraMaiden Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 Star is it a necessity to always be politically correct? There's nothing politically correct about being geographically accurate.... 1
Author xpaperxcutx Posted July 22, 2012 Author Posted July 22, 2012 It was one text. That for all you know he didn't get. However you shouldn't be this invested in this guy to truly give a crap. He didn't reply - big deal. However stop over thinking it. He is on vacation. If he replies great , if not - oh well. However it is too early to tell. Either way it really shouldn't bother you this much or make you feel ashamed. Actually its two. One on Mon and the the second yesterday. I'm not desperate but I think I kind of gotten the hint.
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