tomm Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 hey ppl . well i ot something really fresh that just happened . i met a girl 2 months ago , we started seeing each other regularly .everythings been going good . Fri night i had to go and work ,my dog hasn't been feeling good lately so i asked her if she'd mind staying at my place to keep an eye on him , she said sure no problem.a friend of ours stopped by [ a male ] i had to leave for work.they were hanging out having a beer ,nothing un usual [ i bet you can see where this is leading already ].later on my girl calls me says everythings fine at home her and our friend were gonna run to the bar for a drink and return. i come home 11:30 their real comfortable on my sofa , not sex but close,nuzzeling,his hands on her legs.i told him time to go, she said she'd leave she felt ''horrable'' .i told her stay and talk to me ,she stayed the night we talked .of course i got the alcohol had to do with her actions , i did nothing wrong,she's extremly sorry and embarrased . i didn't yell throw things,or hit .NOW she's wondering why i am cutting off the friend and not her .i'm just all confused here, maybe even somewhat in shock over the events.i feel like a total idiot here . she's willing to ''try'' with me having a one on one relationship.promised it would never happen again etc .trust is already out the window on my end with her .
Pizwilly Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 Nice to meet you....I'm idiot girl. My ex sent me a picture of his ex to hurt me, lied about how he had to unblock her to get it, lied about messaging her cause she forwarded me the email....but tells me I'm the one to ruin us because he was just mad and angry and wanted to hurt me cause I didn't want to fix our relationship! Trust is gone - it takes seconds to break and a lifetime to get back. Follow your gut.
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