How do you get the spice back in a relationship?

[lexnmike4enomore]

Me and my SO have been together for 2 years. About 6 months ago, i noticed that the spice was out of our lives. We like 40year old. We get home from work, have dinner and watch TV and got bed. We talk but about bills and this and that. Are we just really comfortable with each other. I want it to be how it used to be. Wake me up with kiss. Cuddle with me during the night. Surprise me by cooking dinner. I know there's nothing wrong with our relationship. We still love each other. It also seems like sex is a chore. We'll be sitting watch TV and he'll say "Wanna have sex" and then we go into the bedroom, do it and continue watching TV on the couch....HOW DO YOU GET THE SPICE BACK?

[deesgirl]

There is a few things you can try. Think back to how you acted when you were dating. Sometimes we forget how to flirt in a LTR.

 

Sexy clothes/nighties

Try new toys in the bedroom

Do things you haven't tried before/Discuss each others fantasies.

Call him up at work or when he's out and tell him something new you have planned, or just flirt with him on the phone.

Rent a really sexy movie, like 9 1/2 weeks.

Take pictures in the bedroom or tape yourselves.

Wear a wig to bed.

Instead of heading for the bedroom, go out to the garage/back yard/bathroom....just someplace different.