jiltedbride84 Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 My bi-polar- manic depressive- violent husband is (on top of everything) A GRAMA"S BOY ! He cannot cut the cord to his grama and will not move anywhere that isn't near her. We've ben married 21 years and he has never tried to live near my family or sacrifice for me EVER- I've benvery very sick with lyme for 12 years and almost died many times and he has never once thought of me and tried to accomodate my needs- it's always a chore for him to do anything for me- but yet when grama calls- he drops everythign and runs over- why? Because she pays him 200 to walk in the door and calls him KING !! They have a un-natuaral relationship and it creeps me out- he only loves the person who gives him money and only cares about himself= he is greedy MOOCHING selfish ******* and has always put me last- I can't leave him due to my very serious illness and I have no money and bad credit (thanks to him) he has ruined me- I only stay for the sake of the animals and I cannot ever leave them- I would rather him kill me first. I have to protect them and keep them from his "moods" that he swears he doesn't have. He's on two types of bi polar meds but yet denies being bi polar- his doctor told me straight to my face that he's a nut job and he won't believe it. I'm losing my mind and I have no way out.......... If it wasn't for my animals- I don't know what I would do.
Stillgrowing Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 (edited) I'm sorry you are having a hard time. You post was somewhat hard to understand. You are married to a bi-polar, violent man but are mad because he jumps when his grandma wants him to? What is her age? Why does she pay him? Does he walk in and she hands him money? What is occurring? Is the violence secondary to the grandmother love? I'm in a very cranky mood, so forgive me, but... " is a quotation mark. It goes at the beginning and at the end of a sentence that you are quoting from someone else. ' is an apostrophe. It is used to join words, like, it is= it's, or to show possession: He is a Grandma's boy. You can find other places for you to live with your animals. How many do you have? A doctor said he is a nut job to your face? Was this an actual medical doctor? There are HIPAA laws that prevent this, I find it very difficult to belive that a doctor would; A) speak so unprofessionally, i.e., the use of the term, "nut job"; and B) that they would pass this info. along to you so casually. sg Edited July 22, 2012 by Stillgrowing
mercy Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 My bi-polar- manic depressive- violent husband is (on top of everything) A GRAMA"S BOY ! He cannot cut the cord to his grama and will not move anywhere that isn't near her. We've ben married 21 years and he has never tried to live near my family or sacrifice for me EVER- I've benvery very sick with lyme for 12 years and almost died many times and he has never once thought of me and tried to accomodate my needs- it's always a chore for him to do anything for me- but yet when grama calls- he drops everythign and runs over- why? Because she pays him 200 to walk in the door and calls him KING !! They have a un-natuaral relationship and it creeps me out- he only loves the person who gives him money and only cares about himself= he is greedy MOOCHING selfish ******* and has always put me last- I can't leave him due to my very serious illness and I have no money and bad credit (thanks to him) he has ruined me- I only stay for the sake of the animals and I cannot ever leave them- I would rather him kill me first. I have to protect them and keep them from his "moods" that he swears he doesn't have. He's on two types of bi polar meds but yet denies being bi polar- his doctor told me straight to my face that he's a nut job and he won't believe it. I'm losing my mind and I have no way out.......... If it wasn't for my animals- I don't know what I would do. Deep down you resent the relationship they have and wonder why he doesn't feel those feelings towards you. I would feel the same way. Please don't think that you are the only one that can love and care for those animals. There are many organizations to do just that. Take a good hard look at your life, these are the choices you have made, no one else. Get up, get out, search for a better life. Oh, and is being a gramma's boy such a bad thing? At least he has some redeeming qualities.
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