TaintedHeart Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 So I know I haven't been single for long (About 2 months) Anyway I got talking to a lad on a dating site, be talking to him for a few weeks now. I know it sounds insane but we really get on, we just clicked! He wants to meet me but has been messed around by women on these sites before so he doesn't want to talk for ages via texts/calls. That makes sense to me and it's pretty fair I guess. The thing is I haven't done the whole meeting someone from the internet thing before so understandably I'm really nervous! I don't know why, hes a normal guy ect. Anyway, today he asked me if I'd meet him some time this week, or even tomorrow!, believe me I do want to but it all seems a but too soon, plus I'm a complete control freak and would want to plan it properly way in advance (Control freak as in, worrying about getting my hair done, choosing the right clothes, transport, that kind of thing. Yes I know, it sounds stupid! I just don't really know what to say or do, I don't want to blow my chances on meeting him. To be honest, it's more of the control freak/fuss pot thing that is holding me back! Tell me I'm being rediculous.
sid3 Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 So I know I haven't been single for long (About 2 months) Anyway I got talking to a lad on a dating site, be talking to him for a few weeks now. I know it sounds insane but we really get on, we just clicked! He wants to meet me but has been messed around by women on these sites before so he doesn't want to talk for ages via texts/calls. That makes sense to me and it's pretty fair I guess. The thing is I haven't done the whole meeting someone from the internet thing before so understandably I'm really nervous! I don't know why, hes a normal guy ect. Anyway, today he asked me if I'd meet him some time this week, or even tomorrow!, believe me I do want to but it all seems a but too soon, plus I'm a complete control freak and would want to plan it properly way in advance (Control freak as in, worrying about getting my hair done, choosing the right clothes, transport, that kind of thing. Yes I know, it sounds stupid! I just don't really know what to say or do, I don't want to blow my chances on meeting him. To be honest, it's more of the control freak/fuss pot thing that is holding me back! Tell me I'm being rediculous. You're being ridiculous. 1
Affliction Shirt Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 95% of us are trained to see through makeup. feel better?
Author TaintedHeart Posted July 21, 2012 Author Posted July 21, 2012 You're being ridiculous. Really?
Author TaintedHeart Posted July 21, 2012 Author Posted July 21, 2012 95% of us are trained to see through makeup. feel better? It's not just the make up thing, theres other 'silly' things too
SmileFace Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 10 cha? 10 characters..lol - posting limit Anyway just meet him if you like. Why put all this into it for something that may just not work out? You don't need to get to know him more you need to get to meeting him and get it over with.
Author TaintedHeart Posted July 21, 2012 Author Posted July 21, 2012 10 characters..lol - posting limit Anyway just meet him if you like. Why put all this into it for something that may just not work out? You don't need to get to know him more you need to get to meeting him and get it over with. I know, I know. It's just that I've always been a control freak, I'd want everything perfect, and if it doesn't feel perfect and oganised then I won't feel it. Lol
sid3 Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 Really? You already admitted it. Screw getting your hair done and worrying so much. Go as you are. I met my lady early one morning when she had no makeup on and her hair was in a sloppy ponytail. Still, she looked hot. The next time I saw her she had make up on and her hair was down, turns out she's actually smoking hot. My point, first impression aren't always accurate
Author TaintedHeart Posted July 21, 2012 Author Posted July 21, 2012 You already admitted it. Screw getting your hair done and worrying so much. Go as you are. I met my lady early one morning when she had no makeup on and her hair was in a sloppy ponytail. Still, she looked hot. The next time I saw her she had make up on and her hair was down, turns out she's actually smoking hot. My point, first impression aren't always accurate Brave lady! Argh, I'm just a bag of nerves. It's actually spoiling things for me
sid3 Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 Brave lady! Argh, I'm just a bag of nerves. It's actually spoiling things for me No, bravery had nothing to do with it. She has an awesome attitude. Stop giving in to your nervousness is my only advice. No risk usually equates to no reward.
Author TaintedHeart Posted July 21, 2012 Author Posted July 21, 2012 If I was a chilled out person I would have met him by now! I suffer from silly bad nerves
sid3 Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 If I was a chilled out person I would have met him by now! I suffer from silly bad nerves Silly pretty much sums it up.
Affliction Shirt Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 If I was a chilled out person I would have met him by now! I suffer from silly bad nerves uhh.. do you know how easy we are? Like, if you're at least semi-attractive and not serial killer crazy we won't turn you down. If you're looking for a serious relationship on the other hand, well, that's when it gets tricky for you.
oaks Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 Yes I know, it sounds stupid! Yes, it does a bit! Just meet with him already.
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