leoc1973 Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 I read somewhere that losing a love is real withdrawal. By spending a lot of time together we get addicted to each others pheromones and chemical makeup. And when they are gone we start to go through actual withdrawal. Anyone else hear about this? Its been a year since my breakup and I found a girl a little while back that made me not think about my ex. I wonder if maybe if this is all true if maybe she had the same chemical makeup as the ex? I am not seeing the new girl anymore and missing the ex again. Is this why? Also a little side note. When the ex first broke with me I didn't really care much till after a week or so. Then it started to hit me and I started to miss her. Is that when this withdrawal started? I can't find much on the subject for some reason and I am just wondering if what I read is just a few idiots making stuff up? Its just pretty interesting if its true.
SeventhFloor Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 Its definitely true. My friends and I have been discussing this, without prompt from me, and I have been feeling it. I have told my friend, "I miss her." "I haven't been eating as much lately." He goes, "No duh, you're going through physical withdrawals of a relationship." My other friend, his roommate, says the same stuff. You hit it on the head, it's about pheromones and such. I also started hanging out with a new girl, and noticed her pheromones were completely different than my ex. It was confusing at first, and I didn't like it because I was stuck on my ex, but after hanging out with her for a while I realized...I do like it. I was just withdrawing from what I was so used to and accustomed to. I miss her lips a lot. I miss kissing her a LOT. And I realize, that when you kiss, you're exchanging chemical markers to indicate your biological diversity. That's why she said I was a better kisser than the guy she left me for. She also said she didn't like kissing him - but she's with him anyways! She was most likely, so used to my pheromones that someone else's just didn't sit right with her.
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