BlackFlame Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 Hello friends, some advice needed. Used to work with this girl and we stopped working together a while ago when I got a new job. Anyway we've been texting each other frequently and we both know there's some serious sexual chemistry between us - we get on really well and have a great time. So we finally met up this week for a catch up/date. The week before she sent me a text any man would kill for - shall we skip the food and drink and go straight to the sex? The date went really well and we kept flirting/talking dirty etc. But right at the end I choked. And I simply said I'm going this way. She said thanks for a lovely time and went the other way. I was going to call her back but couldn't and started stumbling towards the station. I then did the dumbest thing yet - I text her about half an hour after we parted ways and said: 'not too late for you to come over'. She replied with: 'you should have said that before I walked away'. I then replied with ' I know I should have, but wasn't sure where we stood after some of the stuff we talked about tonight'. She replied with a and goodnight. Basically she told me some stuff - she has some serious baggage and I didn't want to completely fall for her only to have my heart broken later down the road. We are really good friends and now I am stumped as to what I should do next. I want a relationship with her but think I've destroyed all possibilities. The chemistry is there, we get on like a house on fire - but I've been an idiot. Is it a bad idea to arrange another date in a week or two? Will I look desperate? Or shall I move on even though I've thought of nothing else the past two days and am pretty upset. Thanks in advance for your replies.
Affliction Shirt Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 Just go for it dude. What do you have to lose? $50 for drinks? Worth a shot.
Leopard Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 You have nothing to lose. If all chances are gone, then she will say no to a second date. So you have nothing to lose by asking. If she still thinks there is still something that can happen, however, then she will agree to a second date and you have your opportunity to make it up. I say ask. No harm will come of it.
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