k100danny Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 Basically my ex broke up with me around 6 weeks ago. she looks to have moved on or is at least trying to and that did hurt me seeing that. I have since finding this out (around two weeks ago) started chatting to several girls and have been asked out twice and i have said yes both times. Now one of these girls is an old friend of my ex's and they no longer get along, I think i have done this on some level to get back at her even though she will never know as they never speak ect but i think on some level this is why i have done it. The other girl seems ok but is really not someone I would usually go for, I know I'm trying to get over my ex and not get into another relationship but is this the right thing to do? I wouldn't say i have led anyone on, I have said I am not looking for anything ect and i am just out of a relationship but i KNOW i cannot feel that way about anyone at the minute as im still so preoccupied at times with the break up, constant reminders and her popping in my head still makes my stomach drop so I know im not over her. Should i date and just try and take my mind off things but be very honest with then from the start, should i totally stay away from women until I am truly open to something happening? I always thought i am not a person for rebounds but i forced myself to date a few people after my last relationship broke up and I ended up in a relationship althoughI wasn't still heartbroken like I am now when that happened. So do i risk it or am i using the excuse of I don't do rebounds i process my emotions first as a way of not letting go? any help much appreciated.
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