b18bme Posted July 9, 2004 Posted July 9, 2004 To explain my ex broke up with me, I tried to get her back and pushed her far from me and she started to yell and talk very rude to me all the time and finally told me to leave her alone. So I did. Well we talked one da and decided we would hang out just as friends... Well when we hung out **** hit the fan...I picked her up and we were hanging out going about our plans then she said she could not hang out all night and canceled the biggest part of our plans for the night 1/2 hour before we were supposed to go. So I was taking her home and another girl called me so I invited the other girl to hang out...My ex freaked out and said I should have enough respect to not make plans with other girls right in front of her and we are done and we will never be back together. I told her to think about things as she was acting of jelousy and anger. She said that I know absolutely nothing and I will never change but we were done. Well I haven't called her since I took her home. She called me yesterday to tell me she was going to Hawaii at the end of this month...Something she has been wanting to do since I can remember she was very excited and knew I would be excited to. At the end of our conversation I told her I was going to the gym later and asked if she wanted to go. She said she might so I said ok well maybe I see ya. Well she came. We worked out and we laughed we had a great time almost kinda flirting with each other. As I was leaving she was walking down the sidewalk and I rolled down my window and yelled DAMN!!! GIRL!!! as I passed cuz she was wearing really sexy shorts. Her face lit up and she had a smile from ear to ear. Well anyway I went home and went to bed around 12:00 p.m. when I woke up today I had a text message on my phone that she sent me at 1:51 A.M. saying "I do miss you". HMMM well I just sent her one asking if she meant to send that to me but no response yet. I really want this girl back, how should I react to such things, what should I do from here on to better my chances?? I need some advice.
Debster Posted July 9, 2004 Posted July 9, 2004 sounds like you are doing fine. AFter all, you know her. You'll know best how to get her back.
Author b18bme Posted July 9, 2004 Author Posted July 9, 2004 Somebody give me some advice, I don't want to mess this up!!!!
jw32802 Posted July 9, 2004 Posted July 9, 2004 well why did you break up to begin w/ and how long has it been?
Author b18bme Posted July 9, 2004 Author Posted July 9, 2004 She broke up with me because she needed time and space. I pushed way to much for her to come back and thought I had slit my throat with her. It has been about 2 months since we broke up but we have had alot of contact during that time except for lately I have been not calling and just leaving her alone. She has already met somebody else and has been dating him as well as I have met somebody else and been dating her. We have told each other about the people we are dating and it hurts and sucks bad to think she is kissing some other dude. I would definatley take this girl back she meant the world to me but I just don't think she is ready to take me back. How should I play my cards to get her back? Maybe I should just tell her to leave me alone as she is really mixing up my head and my feelings. But I don't want to loose her. AHHHHHHHH What to do, What to do?
jw32802 Posted July 9, 2004 Posted July 9, 2004 So you are dating someone else? Do you think about your ex the whole time though? and do you compare everything about her? hmm maybe shes doing that too
Author b18bme Posted July 9, 2004 Author Posted July 9, 2004 Yes we are both dating other people. No I don't think about her the whole time but she frequently comes into my mind. I do compare some things. Maybe she is doing that to but I need advice?????????
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