joystickd Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 I had been talking to someone for a while now. She talked about being in love with me and it kind of scared me because I was the one that had feeling but never had them reciprocated back. I kind of distanced myself some and only time I spent with her was having sex with her. I honestly trust no one. Tonight I get off work and go to wal-mart and i text her what are you up to and she says going to bed. I turn around see her talking to a guy and he seemed to be getting close to her. I text her and let her know I saw her. She says he is a drunk guy trying to talk to her so I tell her where I am at in the store and tell her to come where I am. After a while I go to check out and i see her leaving with him. I go out the store and he is in the car with her. I text her letting her know that she can't play me. It didn't bother me much as I thought it would. She is texting me now talking about how much she loves me and wants to be with me. I just don't believe it anymore. I know I talk about players and stuff but I am far from it. I get close to someone at get scared sh*tless. I just dont know to believe anymore :(:(:(:(:(:(
dbzeng Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 I would cut all contact with her. She lied to your face, then when you asked to see her she ignored you and left with another guy. Nobody who loves you would do that. 2
StrangeBehaviors Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 Well obviously she is a liar. You are wanting her not to be 'cause you are so into her. If she's giving you sex, take it. And give NOTHING more of yourself. Why? Cause she's a liar!
Author joystickd Posted July 21, 2012 Author Posted July 21, 2012 She is still texting me saying she wants to be with me. Its not going to happen.
dbzeng Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 She lied as to what she was doing. She ignored your request to meet her. She left with another man.... how can you trust her ever again. If I was you I would have confronted her in the store. Stay strong. Block her number if you have to.
Author joystickd Posted July 21, 2012 Author Posted July 21, 2012 She lied as to what she was doing. She ignored your request to meet her. She left with another man.... how can you trust her ever again. If I was you I would have confronted her in the store. Stay strong. Block her number if you have to. It wasn't worth the hassle I saw what I needed to see.
2.50 a gallon Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 Let this one go. You had your chance and your insecurities have given her an out, in short you blew it. No biggey, from the essence of your text this has happened before and until you find away to get grounded and believe in yourself and what you have to offer in a relationship you will continue to chose the curtain with the donkey as the prize. 1
utterer of lies Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 I honestly trust no one. Tonight I get off work and go to wal-mart and i text her what are you up to and she says going to bed. I turn around see her talking to a guy and he seemed to be getting close to her. I text her and let her know I saw her. Why didn't you go over and confront her in person? But you texted her...don't be a scared little boy. 1
Eternal Sunshine Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 If you are playing distancing games what do you expect? If a guy gives me mixed signals, I am looking for other options.
Author joystickd Posted July 21, 2012 Author Posted July 21, 2012 Why didn't you go over and confront her in person? But you texted her...don't be a scared little boy. I wasn't scared. Its just wasnt worth the hassle. I saw what I needed to see.
Author joystickd Posted July 21, 2012 Author Posted July 21, 2012 If you are playing distancing games what do you expect? If a guy gives me mixed signals, I am looking for other options. I don't play games. I know I distanced myself some but I thought it was that serious and i thought it wasnt a mixed signal because it was well established how I felt.
ScienceGal Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 she is a manipulator and thinks that by tugging at your heart strings with the premature "I love you's" that you'll swoon and give her attention. Don't do it, she's a waste of time.
Author joystickd Posted July 22, 2012 Author Posted July 22, 2012 she is a manipulator and thinks that by tugging at your heart strings with the premature "I love you's" that you'll swoon and give her attention. Don't do it, she's a waste of time. Its over. There are too many women to be stuck on one 1
Forever Learning Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 Let this one go. You had your chance and your insecurities have given her an out, in short you blew it. No biggey, from the essence of your text this has happened before and until you find away to get grounded and believe in yourself and what you have to offer in a relationship you will continue to chose the curtain with the donkey as the prize. Good stuff! I've chosen that curtain before as well!
dbzeng Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 If you are playing distancing games what do you expect? If a guy gives me mixed signals, I am looking for other options. So instead of being honest and open you are advocating cheating and deceit. How do I unlike this post.
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