txgamer115 Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 Hey guys and gals, my name is Michael. And as youve guessed it my break up has brought me here to complain, explain and drain myself. Anywho my girlfriend of six years dumped me today. She decided that she couldn't be in the relationship anymore. We had alot of issues that we were trying to work on, well I say we but *I* was working, she was not (yeah I know pointing fingers but oh well, she isn't here to defend herself). So, I was the commited guy, poured love, helped out with chores, couldn't think of a better way to spend my spare time then spending it with her. Clingy much? Eh maybe a little but after six years there was alot of emotions at play and I wasn't ashamed to love my girl. Well for about the past year and a half things have been going downhill due to a couple reasons which I'll neglect to say because they were personal to me and not the relationship. Over the past six months or so she had been spending an incredible amount of time with her friends. Hmm... I think you guys can see where I'm going already. Now for reference her circle of friends she is with now shes known about three years, so I was in her life three years before they even knew she existed. I began to get jealous and angry and how much time she spent with her friends, not to mention that getting her to spend time with me was like pulling teeth. I did my best to soldier on hoping that pushing through the rough times we could find our happiness again, unfortunately it takes two to tango and I was soloing it. Moreover we had a small break up a few months back over the same issues, we went two weeks out of the relationship although we still talked constantly and even kissed. After two weeks I initiated a serious conversation with her about taking another shot at our relationship, bringing our issues to light and doing something about it. Well I held up my end of the bargain, not perfectly as I still went on my occasional rant about her friend time. But in comparison to the effort she put in I was leaps and bounds ahead of her. When we got back together she named some things she would have liked to see different, I oblidged on the issues I could to try and ease the love back in. I told her what bothered me about the relationship and she oblidged on just one thing I can think of. Anywho I can already see the incoming posts about how we aren't meant to be, more fish in the sea and the like. This post was more about engaging the forum, maybe making some friends in the struggle of love, and I'm not sure what else. Sorry for the wall of text. - Michael P.S. She was my first real love, ooouch.
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