Els Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 Honestly, girls, if you block this Sid troll, you'd find this thread to be mostly abuse-free and decent... So what's stopping you? 1
iris219 Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 I never saw this Honestly? I am 5'10 and am a size 12. Does it make sense now? haha You do look much smaller. You have a great shape. I'm starting to think I'm way too thin.
RedRobin Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 This is like saying girls that wear short skirts deserve to be raped Oh please. Let's not be melodramatic. If I wore a short skirt and walked through a part of town I wasn't familiar with... I wouldn't be offended if someone thought I was looking for a 'good time' and said so... or even told me I looked like a 'slut'. There are certain outfits I own that I only wear when I'm with a SO. There is a beautiful evening gown in my closet, in fact. Waiting for just the right gent. Take some responsibility... that's all. A dose of reality maybe? You can't have all the 'perks' without the downside. And yes... I think YOU'RE need to post lots of pics of yourself highlights perfectly your lack of self-esteem, to be quite honest. But that is just my opinion. I'm not a fan of throwing lots of pics around on the internet. Never have been. Regardless of how attractive they are or are not.
RedRobin Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 Thank you everyone. I don't mind back and forth debating. What I do have a problem with is blatant slander. Sure, some of it was right, but that post put me in the position of him being right or me having to share my life story. As for my pictures, I like to think I give a sense of hope. Believe it or not, I am a young woman who has continually stood up for those women who don't fall into the horrible categories and generalizations that many people have here. I can hold my own pretty well, but that one post really did shock me. yes, I'm blunt... But I've lived in the public eye for awhile myself. I 'walked' into mine rather naively... and it took awhile to learn out to manage. I wish someone had told me the things I'm telling you... So, when you observe me being rather cautious, you will know why. Filters exist for a reason. They really do. They are not bad to have. You'll get better about knowing what to share and what not to share...
eleanorhurting Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 ES i enjoy your pictures. I think people should be able to post the pictures they want without it being a permission to get bullied. Jackie, there are a lot of hateful people here. you are young, optimistic and pretty so you just gave them more reasons to take their anger on you. I hope you stick around for long enough to realize that not everyone here is like that. As for the Ops question, i value other qualities more highly than weight 3
todreaminblue Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 If I had a dime for every rude, obnoxious comment a man made to me in my line of work, I'd be a millionaire. If I ran to the authorities every time it happened hoping for them to protect me, I'd never keep a job. That is for sure. They only 'win' when you let them get your goat and it throws you off your path. There are lots of ways to deal with it. If your way works for you, good. I'm not a fan of using the 'report' feature unless the treatment is particularly heinous. It is fine if you thought it was. I did not. Luckily these days the education system is adopting a zero tolerance rule for bullying behavior including the chubby kids(fat slobs as discussed in this post)they are protected by this rule....these overweight children and supported and taught ways to keep healthy and maintain it through physical ed and nutritional advice so they can have choices and have good self esteem....most workplaces have a system in place specifically to protect employees from bullying behaviour and then theres unions that you can pay to be a member of to look after your rights see in the situation you discussed it was not miss jac who hit report it was others here....one was me... one of them a long term member so if you want to use your job as an example what do you think would happen if someone overheard that obnoxious rude comment and reported it.....you wouldn't lose your job at all would you....so it isnt the same at all as your silence and accepting rude and obnoxious comments.... the only reason why i questioned you was that reason she did not hit report.....you seemed angry others deemed it necessary....your post was directed at her not others....that confused me anyway I am off topic......and will probably get flagged again....i often live off topic....i dont want to offend you at all even though you dont seem to care if i do or dont..... I know what henious feels like by the way and if it gets to that stage(and it really cant ever get to that stage here on a computer ) you dont JUST report it.....you scream at the top of your lungs "FIRE" and hope to god someone's there unfortunately for me no one was..i could have done with a report or two...that is why i have my opinion....truce to you red robin..hope you get to read my reply before it goes nigh nigh.... I will not go off topic or post in this thread again to the mods and other posters in this thread i apologise.....i did however mention obesity somewhere in this post in relation to topic....im goin.......deb
Author O'farrell Posted July 22, 2012 Author Posted July 22, 2012 Calling someone a fat slob OP ? Who the eff are you to judge anyone and call some one names. Since you revealed your Afghani culture, what if someone said, I feel bad for that girl dating that Taliban dude. Name calling, stereotypes, and generaliziations are not cool. Some stereotypes actually have some truth to them.
Author O'farrell Posted July 22, 2012 Author Posted July 22, 2012 You didn't stereotype, you outright insulted someone you dont know because you yourself are lacking. You need validation. Postings pics of yourself. Whining cause you cant get laid in a month. Maybe you need some help. Probably:o
mickleb Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 You didn't stereotype, you outright insulted someone you dont know because you yourself are lacking. You need validation. Postings pics of yourself. Whining cause you cant get laid in a month. Maybe you need some help. Alex, I hope you're not bullying O'farrell for posting some pictures of himself.
Forever Silent Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 Who cares why women date fate slobs. Be concerned with yourself. If you think becoming a 'fat slob' will increase your chances with a woman then by all means become a 'fat slob'. Other wise mind your business and keep it moving.
RedRobin Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Alex, I hope you're not bullying O'farrell for posting some pictures of himself. that made me laugh... yea, ok. We probably can't complain about how others look unless we are willing to go under the microscope ourselves. Seems like a good rule!
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