O'farrell Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 I know this really hot girl who is dating this guy way under her league. He is kind of chubby, bummish, and doesn't really stand out at all. She, on the other hand, is tall, good looking, nice ass, and attends university. ?????
KungFuJoe Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 Simple answer. Attraction is subjective. Does everyone like the same food or movies? I mean, I think Grown Ups is the worst movie ever made...I can't imagine a SINGLE person thinking that movie had even ONE redeeming quality, but I can guarantee that someone out there thinks it's the funniest movie ever made. 1
yongyong Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 I feel bad for a good looking guy dating a fat woman. When I see a fat slob with a beautiful woman, he gets my respect and I pay attention to his behavior. (his game)
Titanwolf Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 (edited) I know this really hot girl who is dating this guy way under her league. He is kind of chubby' date=' bummish, and doesn't really stand out at all. She, on the other hand, is tall, good looking, nice ass, and attends university. ?????[/quote'] Again with this mythical league I've heard so much about. 1) What gives you the right to decide what human is superior to another? 2) Bummish? you don't know him and unless you're best friends with deep insight into his life, your opinion is void. 3) Doesn't really stand out? perhaps he's introverted. 25% of people are introverts and this society doesn't do them justice. Now onto the woman. Try and actually process what I'm about to say to you. She is tall and "good looking" not by choice, but by genetics. She did not achieve those looks, she is genetically fortunate, same with height. Anyone can have a great ass with enough squats and attending University means what exactly? doesn't mean **** in the society we live in now and even these so called "experts" are saying that Uni is a bad move in this day and age. Experience>Qualifications. /Thread. *equips fireproof jacket* Come at me bro Edited July 21, 2012 by Titanwolf 1
ascendotum Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 I feel bad for a good looking guy dating a fat woman. When I see a fat slob with a beautiful woman, he gets my respect and I pay attention to his behavior. (his game) I agree with you on your 2nd scenario, but not the first. Thats weird to feel that way about the good looking guy. He has options and obviously chose to date said fat woman of his own accord so he finds something wonderful about her that you dont from a distance. Over the years I have found a number of times that good looking guys get resentful of ugly/less attractive guys dating hot looking women, more so than ugly/less attractive guys who tend to have an admiration for the guy doing so well.
Sanman Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 I feel bad for a good looking guy dating a fat woman. What happens when you find out that she is a trust fund baby and he longer has to work ever again? Or that she used to be slim, but had two kids? Or that he just lost 100 lbs? You are looking at a static moment and trying to understand a a life that is in perpetual motion. 2
miss_jaclynrae Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 Ever think that maybe, just maybe... he makes her happy? Of course not, how silly of me, he must have tons of money, or she is using him for something money related.
yongyong Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 True. But that's what PEOPLE DO including YOU. we all make assumptions based on little information. How is it going to affect him though? I was just passing by them and had a quick thought of 'hm interesting couple' Is it going to ruin their life? Like from the movie 'What women wants' People are constantly saying something about you inside. Sometimes, it's not correct at all. you just don't know that because they don't spit it out. What happens when you find out that she is a trust fund baby and he longer has to work ever again? Or that she used to be slim, but had two kids? Or that he just lost 100 lbs? You are looking at a static moment and trying to understand a a life that is in perpetual motion.
miss_jaclynrae Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 Let's put this to the test. None of us know each other here and we certainly don't know each others friends. So let's use the public arena. Show me a hot girl that is with a fat slob that is in the public eye that makes her happy. This is a lose lose situation, anyone in the public eye has money, so if I stated one you would merely say she is with him for the money...
Sanman Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 True. But that's what PEOPLE DO including YOU. we all make assumptions based on little information. How is it going to affect him though? I was just passing by them and had a quick thought of 'hm interesting couple' Is it going to ruin their life? Like from the movie 'What women wants' People are constantly saying something about you inside. Sometimes, it's not correct at all. you just don't know that because they don't spit it out. I never said it affected them. My point was that you cannot pretend to understand the true inner reasoning of a person until you understand their life. Maybe that fat slob was there for her when no one else was. Maybe they were together before one got hot. Maybe the fat slob used to be hot. My point is that there are infinite possibilities. As for me, I really don't care why they are together. It makes little difference in my life.
Sanman Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 Nah, just state one I won't say a word. Explain Hugh Jackman and his wife.
FitChick Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 Maybe the fat man was slim when they started dating but he's so afraid of losing her that he's gained weight from stress eating. Maybe he was slim and had to take drugs for Crohn's disease so he ballooned. Maybe she used to be fat. This was the case with a neighbor. He was fat and ugly. She had a pretty face but was equally fat. They started dieting together and walking for miles and in a few months, he was slim and ugly and she was slim and gorgeous.
Sanman Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 He's a fat slob? He's ****ing wolverine! No, his wife is less attractive than him and he clearly has money. Explain him staying with her.
123321 Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 A lot of women like "the bear" despite what we see promoted in the media.
dbzeng Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 Ever think that maybe, just maybe... he makes her happy? Of course not, how silly of me, he must have tons of money, or she is using him for something money related. okay, lets ask you. Even from your tiny little avatar I can tell you are a very attractive woman. Have you considered dating a guy who was overweight, maybe not super attractive, but made you feel good?
miss_jaclynrae Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 okay, lets ask you. Even from your tiny little avatar I can tell you are a very attractive woman. Have you considered dating a guy who was overweight, maybe not super attractive, but made you feel good? One hundred percent. I just stopped dating one, I would post his picture so you guys could judge for yourselves but I would feel rude. 2
threebyfate Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 I know this really hot girl who is dating this guy way under her league. He is kind of chubby' date=' bummish, and doesn't really stand out at all. She, on the other hand, is tall, good looking, nice ass, and attends university. ?????[/quote']She's fattening him up for the next BBQ. Saves on her food bill for those expensive nights when she's entertaining.
dbzeng Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 One hundred percent. I just stopped dating one, I would post his picture so you guys could judge for yourselves but I would feel rude. Fair enough, no need to post his pic. You are better than most women, most women (and men) aren't like you and are much more superficial. BTW, you didn't stop dating him because you lost attraction to him did you?
miss_jaclynrae Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 Fair enough, no need to post his pic. You are better than most women, most women (and men) aren't like you and are much more superficial. BTW, you didn't stop dating him because you lost attraction to him did you? Not at all, he ended up being a stage 5 clinger. Bummer too, because he was great when we spent time together. We still talk though! We only went on 3 dates but we hit it off well enough to where we decided to stay in touch.
Pyro Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 She's fattening him up for the next BBQ. Saves on her food bill for those expensive nights when she's entertaining. She never had a food bill. Men do all the paying....remember?
miss_jaclynrae Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 Attractive? Maybe. But not hot. See, she is looking to trade up already. Are you serious? Trade up? Okayyyyyy. You obviously have not seen much of my posts.
threebyfate Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 She never had a food bill. Men do all the paying....remember?Same, same! This guy would be paying the ultimate price.
dbzeng Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 Attractive? Maybe. But not hot. I think she is hot, miss_jaclynrae could please post more pictures of yourself so that we may settle this argument?
miss_jaclynrae Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 I think she is hot, miss_jaclynrae could please post more pictures of yourself so that we may settle this argument? Challenge accepted. http://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash4/377950_2317245804842_1788441895_n.jpg http://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash3/545061_3716556226728_148852569_n.jpg http://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash4/303473_3152609928423_898763638_n.jpg http://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-snc7/401918_2561769757788_481769676_n.jpg Good enough? Either way, I think I am hot, and that is enough for me. I have a little extra extra and am not a small woman by far, but I am happy with who I am! 1
dbzeng Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 Where can I get a pair of those glasses, they look bad a$$. Jesus..... that one picture.......... your big beautiful eyes...
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