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Men Only: Would you honestly be in a sexless relationship/marriage?


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OK well maybe if she was rich and I had permission to fool around but that wasn't the original scenario.

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Scenario:

 

There is a woman who's childhood was filled with molestation and rape and even with therapy she is too traumatized to have a sexual relationship. People think therapy and medications fix everything, but they are very wrong. Being with her would involve:

 

-Never having sex

-Never giving/receiving oral

-Never touching her sexually or having her touch you sexually

 

Would you be in a relationship with her? Would you marry a woman like this? Would you be faithful? Could you handle being in a relationship with only cuddling, kissing and holding hands, for the rest of your life?

This scenario is every man's nightmare (and I mean men who are mentally and emotionally healthy). What's the point of my relationship with her if we're not going to have sex? I'd be better off spending the rest of my days with a blowup doll. I'd be cheaper and less hassle.

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This scenario is every man's nightmare (and I mean men who are mentally and emotionally healthy). What's the point of my relationship with her if we're not going to have sex? I'd be better off spending the rest of my days with a blowup doll. I'd be cheaper and less hassle.

 

I'm actually surprised that there's even one guy on this thread that would be okay with that. Just when you think you know stuff :confused:

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Scenario:

 

There is a woman who's childhood was filled with molestation and rape and even with therapy she is too traumatized to have a sexual relationship. People think therapy and medications fix everything, but they are very wrong. Being with her would involve:

 

-Never having sex

-Never giving/receiving oral

-Never touching her sexually or having her touch you sexually

 

Would you be in a relationship with her? Would you marry a woman like this? Would you be faithful? Could you handle being in a relationship with only cuddling, kissing and holding hands, for the rest of your life?

 

I know someone who is in a relationship like this. He loves her dearly, and she is his rock.

 

They do have an agreement though: he can go elsewhere to get his needs met. Just so long as he doesn't rub her face in it, and she doesn't ask questions.

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I don't believe this is in your best interest either. You'll get over it eventually hopefully :).

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This scenario is every man's nightmare (and I mean men who are mentally and emotionally healthy). What's the point of my relationship with her if we're not going to have sex? I'd be better off spending the rest of my days with a blowup doll. I'd be cheaper and less hassle.

 

And this is why I won't ever re-marry or live under another woman's roof.

Because when the sex stops I got myself a problem or two plus I got kids.

 

If i'm not married & she's living in my house...well then she has the problem if she decides she no longer wants to have sex with me.

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Blow me or I will blow you out

 

F-ck me or F-ck off LOL

And this is why I won't ever re-marry or live under another woman's roof.

Because when the sex stops I got myself a problem or two plus I got kids.

 

If i'm not married & she's living in my house...well then she has the problem if she decides she no longer wants to have sex with me.

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