Jaf15 Posted July 20, 2012 Posted July 20, 2012 Well basically I got back into the game a month ago after breakup with ex gf of 3 years, I am 20. I met this girl on OK Cupid, and we have talked a lot through text past week or two, I have even visited her at work twice. I am supposed to be picking her up and taking her out to dinner at 6 today. I am getting nervous and over thinking things, such as, she is 18 and lives with her parents, do I ring the doorbell when i am there, or simply call or text her when im there. Ughhhhh.. never use to be this nervous Advice or encouraging thoughts to help me
sid3 Posted July 20, 2012 Posted July 20, 2012 Well basically I got back into the game a month ago after breakup with ex gf of 3 years, I am 20. I met this girl on OK Cupid, and we have talked a lot through text past week or two, I have even visited her at work twice. I am supposed to be picking her up and taking her out to dinner at 6 today. I am getting nervous and over thinking things, such as, she is 18 and lives with her parents, do I ring the doorbell when i am there, or simply call or text her when im there. Ughhhhh.. never use to be this nervous Advice or encouraging thoughts to help me There's nothing to be nervous about. Chances are she won't bite, at least not on the first date.
Author Jaf15 Posted July 20, 2012 Author Posted July 20, 2012 hahaha i hope not, I am guessing I should knock on the door, what do i say if a family member answers?
sid3 Posted July 20, 2012 Posted July 20, 2012 hahaha i hope not, I am guessing I should knock on the door, what do i say if a family member answers? Say,."hi I'm Jaf, is (blank) here?
Author Jaf15 Posted July 20, 2012 Author Posted July 20, 2012 yeah that does not seem to difficult, Idk why I am so nervous
Author Jaf15 Posted July 20, 2012 Author Posted July 20, 2012 hahaha yeah, I can't really deny that one
sid3 Posted July 20, 2012 Posted July 20, 2012 hahaha yeah, I can't really deny that one +1 for honesty. Don't fall for that "she's not that kind of girl" nonsense. At one time or another they all are. Same goes for"but she's special" they're all special to someone at some point.
amantis Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 Thats your problem , you are thinking in having sex with her and you didnt spend time with her , thats why you are nervous ! Why cant you just go and spend a good time with her without thinking in sex ?
SmileFace Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 I will just call when I am outside if I was you. I would not knock on her door or I wouldn't want someone knocking on my door. Do you want to meet the parentals so early on?
sid3 Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 You should park like a block away and call her out to meet you. What? Then what? Maybe he should just hand her his balls when she gets in the car. He asked for encouragement, not how to get pussyfied.
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