steveblack Posted July 20, 2012 Posted July 20, 2012 I have been in love twice in my life, once 7 years ago and my fresh breakup about month ago. My first breakup was my first love, and it was tough. I hung onto her way to long after the breakup. It HURT a lot, but the relationship was awful, and the breakup was even worse. My recent love breakup was 7 years later, so I am a little more mature (now 30), but I am struggling. -- The weird part is I haven't got any nightmares regarding the recent girl, but nightmares about the one 7 years ago. I think I am afraid that I am going to be going to be going through the same hurt again, and its my mind saying "dont hang on to this one like last time!" What do you guys think?
avi_28 Posted July 20, 2012 Posted July 20, 2012 Your dreams could be telling you not to hang on as you mentioned...it's hard honestly... When I divorced my ex husband we left on good terms BUT I did have some horrible dreams about us and our situation... I began to hate dreaming... now as I am going through to insane process of what little relationship I have left now with my bf I am beginning to have those dreams again only not with my ex-hubs but with my NOW bf.. Just take one day at a time and try to focus elsewhere before you go to bed...I've always heard you could dream of anything you last saw before you fall asleep
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