Fitz Caraldo Posted July 20, 2012 Posted July 20, 2012 (edited) Hello. We are a couple ... in love, of course ... but after 30 years things in bed are getting a bit similar ... She thinks, maybe ... I'm writing this with Her (I type a lot better) ... and, yes, I realise that this is all a bit of a cliche but we'd appreciate some guidance that, hopefully, isn't something we've heard before. The usual resistances are there ... lots of children, time and tiredness. We've tried a lot (and a lot of things), sexually, in the past, to keep things interesting. She has always enjoyed exhibiting Her beautiful body, discreetly to other men and women (yes, She is bisexual); and I've always enjoyed Her arousal in doing so and don't feel threatened. These events, however, have been all too few ... more recently Her desire for this type of activity has come to the fore ... and almost the only subject I discuss (fantasize) with Her that makes Her highly aroused. Our horde of children prohibits Her doing anything In Real but She is very excited with the idea of exchanging experiences and pictures, privately, via email with other people who we are able to feel safe about. Is this all a bit silly ... dangerous? Does anyone know how we might go about it? Safely? We'd love to hear from anyone but, please, be kind ... we really are genuine. Thanks. Edited July 20, 2012 by Fitz Caraldo
SoMovinOn Posted July 20, 2012 Posted July 20, 2012 In the car would seem a good spot. Truckers always appreciate getting flashed. A skirt with nothing underneath is good for that. If she was doing something a bit more, it might be even more fun. If you find some local gay bars which are not all male or female, they are usually less discrete about extreme PDA's. Playing with her in a dark corner, where others clearly know what's going on is often perfectly acceptable. There's the added bonus of another chick possibly coming over and joining in.
Author Fitz Caraldo Posted July 22, 2012 Author Posted July 22, 2012 Thanks, SMO, for your suggestions ... erm ... we live in a very remote part of the world and have many children so bars are something we've not done for many years ... and She was hoping for something a little more intimate and sophisticated than the highway flash ... but we had a giggle and REALLY enjoyed your tone ... you sound like a really nice person, thanks. Oh! ... we've had over a hundred "views" and you've been the only reply ...? Are we too weird or too boring? Fitz & Scarlet
standtall Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 l but She is very excited with the idea of exchanging experiences and pictures, privately, via email with other people who we are able to feel safe about. Is this all a bit silly ... dangerous? Does anyone know how we might go about it? Safely? We'd love to hear from anyone but, please, be kind ... we really are genuine. Thanks. Darn..I'm fresh outta swinger pictures. This sounds as if it should be in the sex forum...just sayin.
SoMovinOn Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 Thanks, SMO, for your suggestions ... erm ... we live in a very remote part of the world and have many children so bars are something we've not done for many years ... and She was hoping for something a little more intimate and sophisticated than the highway flash ... but we had a giggle and REALLY enjoyed your tone ... you sound like a really nice person, thanks. Oh! ... we've had over a hundred "views" and you've been the only reply ...? Are we too weird or too boring? Fitz & Scarlet If you're weird, you have a LOT of company, but... it's something most people prefer to not, or have difficulty discussing. Based on your limitations - living somewhere remote and having a lot of kids, you're certainly going to need to get creative in order to find some way to play out these desires. Just, don't be afraid to try different things and see what works for you.
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