SeventhFloor Posted July 20, 2012 Posted July 20, 2012 (edited) She lied, cheated, led me on, etc...and a week after officially breaking up with me, was now official with this new guy. This was on our anniversary. Their relationship, and our relationship, share the same day - which is also the day of my birthday. Its a slap in the face. Is that not messed up? How could that not bother her? I have a friend who says she is a human being, it has to bother her, and it'll be a reminder for her every anniversary of theirs. But at the same time...I feel like she probably doesn't care, it doesn't bother her and she will forget that our anniversary was the same as theirs very soon. And that...well, it stings. Imagine that - on my birthday, they will have been dating for exactly 2 months, which is also our anniversary day too. Do you think that it bothers her? Or she just doesn't care? I know that's really tough to answer...but wouldn't it make most people go, "Oh...crap."? That is, if she even realized it. For a moment, I was kind of glad because I thought, "Well...that'll just ensure that she never forgets me, especially on their anniversary" but...that's not really true is it. This is just the cherry freaking topping to the crap sundae that she served me up. How can I forget about this? I feel pathetic for stressing about this. Edited July 20, 2012 by SeventhFloor
january2011 Posted July 20, 2012 Posted July 20, 2012 Have you gone NC yet? If not, perhaps it's time that you get started. You're stressing over it because you keep getting news updates on her life. Imagine if you heard nothing. You'd be free to get on with your life rather than focusing on hers. Speculating on what she is and isn't thinking or feeling is driving you crazy. You forget about it by finding something else to obsess about, work or study would be a good start.
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