Triguluous Posted July 9, 2004 Posted July 9, 2004 Well, I saw this girl in the gym the other day and I said hi to her and her face lit up and she smiled and said hi back. Nothing really happened, but just today I went into a hardware store and she is working there. She asked if she could help me and I said, "no thank you, but I think I saw you at the gym a few days ago." She replied yes I think you did. Well, she said something else and then smiled and slowly walked off. Later as I am looking at stuff she came up to me and asked me If I workout for football or for fun. I told her fun, school is to demaneding to play a sport. She continued small talk. She made a comment about how I was all muscle. I made a joke and then. We went on our business. Well I later walked up to her and talked to her again and then told her my name and if she would like to get together sometime. She said sure and she grabbed a pin and paper and wrote down her number and told me that she wouldn't be able to do anything this weeked she is having a friend come down and visit. I agreed. it is thursday so most people already have plans for the weekend. No bigging, I didn't ask her about this weekend anyways. She just said it to inform me i guess and checked me out at the register. Some more small talk. I told her that I would probably give her a ring friday sometime. I want to know what you guys think. I appeared to me that she was at least a little interested from the way she smiled laughed and looked at me. my buddy kinda knows her and he said she seems to be a really shy but sweet girl. And for all he knows isn't envolved with anyone. I wanted to see if she wants to hang out during the week, I don't want like a movie or dinner date. More like just a get together and coffee. I was thinking of eviteing her along with me to go somewhere (like to a book store, etc.) than maybe get a coffee or a quick bite to eat. I don't want to look like an idiot. I am good at talking as long as it is a simple date. Other wise I start not being myself. When I call her tomorrow, I know I should keep the convo short. Should I go ahead and ask her what here schedule is like for the next week, etc. I am not nervious about this. Just want some feed back. It has been a while sense I have been on a date and I would like it to go smoothly. I screw things up when I get nervious. Talking to much is my problem. then it gets hard to be myself.
kellydontwanttasleep Posted July 9, 2004 Posted July 9, 2004 i think you know what to do already, i like the idea of going to the book store
SamanthaX Posted July 9, 2004 Posted July 9, 2004 I think you should call her and ask her on a date. Keep the conversation short and upbeat. It will leave her with a good impression of you. I know calling someone new can be nerveracking but what is the worst that can happen? Ask her to book store for a coffee for wed or thursday.That sounds like a niice idea. Good luck.
Smoov Posted July 9, 2004 Posted July 9, 2004 Nice moves bud. Definately ask this girl out on a date. Here are some pointers that i believe will help 1. Keep the conversation light and funny (don't dive into a topic that is too deep, or divulge too much information about yourself, remember appearing mysterious is very attractive to women) 2. Don't touch her. Let her do all the touching. It will be a good indication about how high her interest level is. (if you do all the touching it will appear that your coming on too strong.) 3. This point, goes without saying.......but just incase you forget. Be well behaved at all times and ensure that you are presentable and that your personal hygiene is excellent
Author Triguluous Posted July 9, 2004 Author Posted July 9, 2004 There is something that has been bothering me a little. This could have been just a mistake, but after I got her number, etc. Said I would call her friday. And was leaving the store I was almost there I heard her say "it was nice talking to you Chris." Ok, here is the thing, when I introduced myself I said, "Hi, my name is GRANT" could this just have been a mistake, she not of heared me correctly? I have done the name thing before. But it has been kinda on my mine. I didn't turn around when she said that. Just kept out he door. Playied it off like I didn't hear her. Just incase she realized it, didn't want her to feel embarrest or anything. Could she have been thinking about someone else? I kinda laugh about it in my head, ahaha.
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