Did you feel sick to your stomach after a break. how long for

[k100danny]

I currently feel so sick all the time, like i want to throw up. I've lost my appetite and I cannot focus at all. It has been around 5 weeks since the break up. I do have moments when I feel slightly better but just a general anxiety most of the time, Unable to sit and relax and watch a movie. most of the time I am preoccupied.

 

It has been 3 weeks since the last bread crumb when she said she was still thinking of me everyday and I just feel torn apart. I know deep down it was for the best and it wasnt working out but now and again out of nowhere, I may be out at the shop or trying to keep myself busy and BANG, i feel emotional and very teary. I know it won't always be this way but is 5 weeks a long time to still be feeling like this? It was a 7 month relationship but quite intense and a lot happened between us.

[2muchlove]

You're lucky to have her tell you that brother. It's been about 6 weeks for me.

 

I don't even get those kind of breadcrumbs and I still feel sick to my stomach sometimes. Even when I'm out with friends I will get weak moments. In fact yesterday I was at a little get together at a buddy's house and while we were all talking I got really emotional out of nowhere and had to walk away. Almost cried.

 

Keep your head up though. Even though I know it's hard to fully accept it. Things will get easier. I'm here for you man. We're all here for you. Going through the same exact thing.

 

Today I cried. For whatever reason the Bon Iver pandora station puts me at ease. Never even heard any of his music until yesterday. But I'm loving it.

[k100danny]

Yeah I know it will get easier. I found out around a week ago that she might be seeing someone, two weeks after telling me those things, it looks like once she found someone else she didnt need to give me breadcrumbs anymore.

 

But She also did this after seeing a post a previous ex did on my faacebook well, she deleted me then all of a sudden seemed really happy so im unsure if she is. I hope one day we both are I'm just having a bit of a bad day, Im an anxious person anyway and I have panic disorder and generalized anxiety disorder so I'm more worrysome than most at the best of times. I know it will get easier i'm just wondering if this seems like a long time to still cry over a break up now and again? I mean I know my sadness is just down to this I have other things going on in my life which are making me down at the moment but I often feel quite pathetic that I can't just move on and let it go. I have not contacted her since a week ago when I sent her a final message telling her goodbye and i hope she is truly happy now. I then blocked her and told her not to speak to me again but I wasn't nasty about it I just said I needed to go and find happiness for myself and When she gets time if she can return my proeprty (a watch) I would appreciate but this is the last she sill hear from me.

 

She can't contact me online, she is away in another country and I have no sign of the watch. To tell you the truth I think i will be heartbroken again the day it comes back to me.

[2muchlove]

I don't believe it's a long time. Though we are all experiencing a variation of the same thing.

 

I found out my ex is talking to five different guys. 2 of whom she slept with, one of which was a friend of mine.

 

I thought that would make it easier for me, but it made me realize that it's not so much her that I'm upset about. It's the death of our relationship. The feeling we got from each other.

 

But deep down I know I can feel that way about someone again. Whether it be 6 months from now or 6 years. It will happen again. And I know I will be sure not to mess it up again.

 

About the watch: I think by the time you get it back it might be tough. But you will be more equipped to handle it. And it will be almost relaxing to have received it. Almost like sweet closure.

[Sameold]

2muchlove....it is not your fault! Not all women just jack it in and go for the greener grass. Be strong. She's the one that ****ed up, not you. She's lost you!

[k100danny]

Yeah maybe so, when and if it does come back i will know the package is from her as it will have the countries postal mark and it will be pretty obvious. I don't think i will open it though i will stick it in a drawer until I don't feel intrigued to if there is a note or letter inside with it and be either dissapointed or back to square one if there is or isnt.

 

I've had a bit of a weak moment tonight and with lots of stress going on in my life i dont mind admitting i had a bit of a cry, mainly down to other problems but obviously because of the break up and missing the relationship too. I feel quite a lot better now about the whole thing, I know i will have good and bad days and i know i will feel that loving feeling again, and even better i will have that start of a relationship feeling again which you can never get back and feels so amazing.

[blondie 12345]

Hi

I was with my ex for 10 years we have a son together then 1 day he got said I don't love you and walked out. 2 days later I found out he was dating someone from work she was seen staying over at his house at the time I felt sick couldn't eat couldn't stop crying. Its now 5 years on and I never thought I'd be as happy as I am and over him I have my own house a lovely partner my job going great so this proves you will get over it and things will get better

At the time I was devestated n thought life had ended it took 2 years to get over it but my life now is worth the pain he caused me if he hadn't left I wouldn't have this life now,

Keep calm take 1 days at time it will get better

xx