bamarebel334 Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 So I posted my original story yesterday (search for bamarebel334). Since she broke up with me a month ago she's asked me a few times if I've found someone else. We live in the same house still, so we went to the store today with our kid. She said to me in the car, have you found a new girlfriend yet? I just laughed and said no, to which she responded "why not, you're a good looking guy". Is she just fu**ing with me or does she regret her decision already but doesn't want to say so? She's still packing stuff up, but she keeps asking me that. If after you read my other post, do I ever have a chance with her or no?
Chi townD Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Hell, Who KNows! Maybe she keeps asking if you have a girlfriend becuase if you do, then she wouldn't feel so bad about having a boyfriend.
Tree_Salmon Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Yeah i think you're giving her too much credit. Shes stroking your ego for a reason. Most likely to soften the blow of "hey you're a good looking guy...oh and btw this its Tom" She may already have a man and shes just too nervous to tell you so if you had a girlfriend it would be much easier. Don't give these women any credit. 1
Author bamarebel334 Posted July 19, 2012 Author Posted July 19, 2012 I just asked her if that's why she keeps asking. I asked her if it was all just a big game or if she still has feelings for me.
Author bamarebel334 Posted July 19, 2012 Author Posted July 19, 2012 Rebound relationships almost never work do they? She just texted me and said "its not a game at all. If I wanted a boyfriend I'd get one. We've been broken up almost 2 months so if either one of us got somebody it wouldn't matter. We're definitely moving. Why u think I been on u to get a place?
Tree_Salmon Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 just drop her. she sounds like your standard dumper. play it off like this is the best thing that ever happened. because it probably is. take care of the kid and move on. shell come running back when she sees you think highly of yourself. you know how this whole thing goes.
Author bamarebel334 Posted July 19, 2012 Author Posted July 19, 2012 lol no I don't know how this whole thing goes. I had one serious relationship in high school and she broke up with me, I cried and moved on. This one is different, I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her and she wanted the same. I never thought this **** would happen. Even thought I know she did a stupid thing, my love her won't let me move on. I'm pretty stupid I admit, but when you know you love someone you just know.
Chi townD Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Rebound relationships almost never work do they? She just texted me and said "its not a game at all. If I wanted a boyfriend I'd get one. We've been broken up almost 2 months so if either one of us got somebody it wouldn't matter. We're definitely moving. Why u think I been on u to get a place? Ummm.... so you can bring your boyfriend over anytime you want. So, you can talk to him over the phone freely without me hearing what you're saying. So, you can IM him on the computer with worrying about me looking over your shoulder. Look, there's something fishy going on with her. She had to entrap you for no other reason but to find and excuse to end things with you. She was probably looking and you weren't doing anything wrong. So, she had to trick you. By the way, did you notice that no where in that text did she say, "NO! I don't have a boyfriend."?
Samilia Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Hell, Who KNows! Maybe she keeps asking if you have a girlfriend becuase if you do, then she wouldn't feel so bad about having a boyfriend. yes, that ..
Sameold Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Must be awkward, get out of there as fast as you can.
Author bamarebel334 Posted July 19, 2012 Author Posted July 19, 2012 It would be easy for me to leave, that's not the problem. The problem is I genuinely want to be with her and my kids. We are all human and we f*ck up, but overall our relationship was not out of the ordinary. I just went in her room and asked her straight up, if that whole texting thing was the only reason she's leaving. She said yes, it may not be big to you but it is to me. I also asked her if she thinks time apart will make things better, she said I don't know. I realize at this point she could have just said no because why would she choose to lead me on if she's 100% sure we're over? Call me stupid, but I truthfully want to be with her. We made it through so much, I think this is just another speed bump on the road to forever. I think once she moves, she'll realize it wasn't a big deal and realize she fu*ked up
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