Hawk12 Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 I dreamt about my ex all night that we were back together and then in another dream she told me she was seeing someone else. Firstbthing I did when I woke up was check her fb page and now I'm feeling pretty low. Been broke up about a month now after a 4 year relationship no contact for over week and I actually haven't contacted her first myself since she ended it. Any suggestions
SeventhFloor Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Delete her off facebook and block her. Not for her sake, but yours. You may keep dreaming about her, but eventually that will slow down and stop. Stay no contact so you can heal, until both of you are in a better place where you can talk. This is so YOU can HEAL.
StarlaStardust Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 I don't have anything to help you with, but I just wanted to say I have these dreams about my ex too. Hugs to you.
Blastoplast Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 I had a dream about my ex early this morning, I didn't want it to end. She was wet from being on the beach and covered in sand, but I lifted up my comforter for her to crawl in with me and it was glorious. It just sucks because we're both still in love with each other. SHE made the call, not me. As far as suggestions? Just live with it, it's only a dream. You can either enjoy the dream, or dwell on it. Simple as that
Author Hawk12 Posted July 19, 2012 Author Posted July 19, 2012 It's just so frustrating because she's probably happy and moving on an I'm Just simply stuck
PainsChains Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 It does suck. But we all know what you're going through. Eventually you'll move on too. Unfortunately it just takes the dumpees more time. Just work at moving forward as best you can. At some point you'll become so sick of hurting over her that your memories won't be of her on the beach. They'll be of you hurting over her. And that's about the time you'll stop hurting. Because it won't be about her anymore. It'll just be about your pain. It's a long road. So sorry man.
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