youdunsay Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Considering the guy who dumped me for another girl for whatever reasons, I find it tough to meet new guys again. I don't drink not frequent pubs. My life revolves around music or jogging or reading. Am I doomed?
stillafool Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 If your life revolves around music, aren't there places where people gather to hear music or play music? If so, can't you meet men there?
Casablanca Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 If your life revolves around music, aren't there places where people gather to hear music or play music? If so, can't you meet men there? This is what I was thinking. If you live in a good sized city there might be a jazz club, or place where you can meet up with musicians. Check craigslist. Look for a book club or probably better odds of finding a guy at a author signing at a book store. Running in a park might come up with something too
Author youdunsay Posted July 20, 2012 Author Posted July 20, 2012 How can I meet more new guy friends without drinking? I live in a quiet neighbourhood and I'll concentrate more on finishing the run when jogging than notice any guys around me lol.
Casablanca Posted July 21, 2012 Posted July 21, 2012 Ur a woman. You dont need a personality to get a date or get laid. If you like music, go to a concert and wink at a guy. You will have dates lined up till Christmas. Only reason you dont have a guy is because ur not over your ex, you are not going out, or you are comparing every other guy to your ex. If you were a man, you would still be a virgin cause you really dont have a personality. Be happy men are easy. But she wants to weed out the guys who want a hit and run. She wants to be proactive and find people with her same passions. How can I meet more new guy friends without drinking? I live in a quiet neighbourhood and I'll concentrate more on finishing the run when jogging than notice any guys around me lol. Strike up a conversation at the water fountain after a run, or after you start stretching. I've done that a few times, no issues other than only one or two seemed receptive where we actually talked, but both had boyfriends. You could also check out online dating
gaius Posted July 22, 2012 Posted July 22, 2012 I met a woman in an elevator the other day. Not really my type so I passed but really, chances are everywhere. I know it sucks to multitask while exercising but I would bet there's a few guys who are oogling while you're running, just got find a way to say hi to them. If they are real men they will take care of the rest.
thatoneguy1988 Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 if you like working out go to the gym, Im sure guys will try to talk to you there for sure if you are inshape and at least average in looks you should have lines
Forever Silent Posted July 23, 2012 Posted July 23, 2012 Considering the guy who dumped me for another girl for whatever reasons, I find it tough to meet new guys again. I don't drink not frequent pubs. My life revolves around music or jogging or reading. Am I doomed? What type of guy are you looking for? If you like jogging, sign-up at your local gym. Lots of guys there. If you like music, head to a jazz club or go to a bar on karoke night or something. And if you like reading, head to a library or a book-reading or something of that nature.
haribogumsnickers Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 Doomed to be eternally single? Never that. Sucks he dumped you but I'm sure you're better off without. There's always someone better out there and you can search but don't over-search. Enjoy yourself and make a lot of new friends. Don't think of why you got dumped because that's irrelevant. You know who you are and you know who's right for you. Don't change.
Tulsy Posted July 24, 2012 Posted July 24, 2012 How can I meet more new guy friends without drinking? I live in a quiet neighbourhood and I'll concentrate more on finishing the run when jogging than notice any guys around me lol. Order a tonic water with lime...or club soda with lime...no one will know, and no one will care. You don't have to drink much to have a good time. Most women I meet don't drink very much...and I avoid the ones who drink a lot. I don't like all the drunk-drama that goes with it.
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