Dating Double Standards

[Oxy Moronovich]

Official dating double standards:

 

--if a man cheats, women will say, "he's a dog."

--if a woman cheats, women will say, "he must not have been satisfying you."

 

--when a man is still friends with his ex, his girlfriend will say, "i'm not comfortable with you talking to her."

--when a woman is still friends with her ex, his girlfriend will say, "you're being insecure and jealous."

 

--when she doesn't call=standard operating procedure

--when he doesn't call=he's a jerk and a pig

 

--when her friends trash-talk her bf, she says, "my friends come first"

--when his friends trash-talk her, she says, "i don't like it when you put your friends before me."

Edited July 19, 2012 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
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[Mme. Chaucer]

Maybe you need to start cultivating a completely new circle of friends and acquaintances.

[Mme. Chaucer]

 

Official dating double standards:

 

--if a man cheats, men will say, "he's a playa with good game."

--if a woman cheats, men will say, "she's a slut."

 

--when a woman is still friends with her ex, men will say, "It's impossible for women to be 'friends' with men, something fishy's going on."

 

--when a man is still friends with his ex, men will say, "don't let no beeyotches tell you what to do."

 

 

--when her friends trash-talk her bf, he says, "it's them or me"

--when his friends trash-talk her, he says, "bros before hos."

[Oxy Moronovich]

ask a couple whose in charge...

 

if she says she is, it's considered cute/funny

if he says he is, he's a pig/abusive

Maybe you need to start cultivating a completely new circle of friends and acquaintances.

Yeah, I'll get right on that.

[Sugarkane]

Completely true from my experience. There was one British male celebrity, I can't remember who as they aren't famous here. He was posting pics of woman asleep, his conquests without their permission. He was bragging about it and guys thought he was a champ and only encouraged him. Men started copying him too. But you never see women do this. They would be labeled a slut of coarse. Funny about that.

 

Official dating double standards:

 

--if a man cheats, men will say, "he's a playa with good game."

--if a woman cheats, men will say, "she's a slut."

 

--when a woman is still friends with her ex, men will say, "It's impossible for women to be 'friends' with men, something fishy's going on."

 

--when a man is still friends with his ex, men will say, "don't let no beeyotches tell you what to do."

 

 

--when her friends trash-talk her bf, he says, "it's them or me"

--when his friends trash-talk her, he says, "bros before hos."

[Sugarkane]

That may be true but a guy won't consider you for dating if you have no personality. It won't last. Most women don't like meaningless sex like guys do. Most women want to be special and would prefer to be in a relationship. Do you ever see women buy PUA books? No women read books on dating and relationships instead. Women don't deal well with just sex. It's usually the woman that gets hurt with eg FWBs, no strings. Not men.

women dont need a personality nor confidence to get laid or get a date. she can be dumb or the most boring person ever. it doesnt matter. she is still getting dates. a guy with confidence will still face rejection compared to a woman who has no personality. most of the women cant get a relationship since they dont have a personality. eventually they will curse mankind but never themselves. why dont u guys get it? women dont need to do anything to get a guy. they can wink at the guy at a bar and say boring things like what do u do, where do u live, ask 50 questions and still get laid. if a guy does the same boring routine he is going home alone with no digits. women choose in dating. women are like a company that receive 25 resumes/day from men.

 

women can have sex with 20 guys tonite without saying a word. men have to work for it. thats y men get props for getting a date or getting laid. men work to get it, women are born with a silver spoon. if women were competing to get brad pitt on a date and they were competing with angelina jolie than that would be even. men are easy. women are picky. dont read/listen to a word women say on these forums. every woman here has dated an ahole. so what does that tell u? look at the statistics. if u want to get a date and every woman has dated an ahole...that means in order for u to get a date u have to be an ahole? ur right. white men are open to dating indian women, asian women. white women are not open to dating asian men nor indian men. get the point? women always choose in dating unless they are competing for brad pitt. im surprised u even bother reading the replies women type here. 80% women are sleeping with 20% men. get it through ur head

[Sugarkane]

Also if you sleep around and you're a woman, people don't encourage you, call you a champ.

[todreaminblue]

Official dating double standards:

 

--if a man cheats, women will say, "he's a dog."

--if a woman cheats, women will say, "he must not have been satisfying you."

 

--when a man is still friends with his ex, his girlfriend will say, "i'm not comfortable with you talking to her."

--when a woman is still friends with her ex, his girlfriend will say, "you're being insecure and jealous."

 

--when she doesn't call=standard operating procedure

--when he doesn't call=he's a jerk and a pig

 

--when her friends trash-talk her bf, she says, "my friends come first"

--when his friends trash-talk her, she says, "i don't like it when you put your friends before me."

 

 

mind reading thread again.and reading double meanings in regard to women....these things women say but think in their head cant be proven....

unless you are psychic.....i dont call a cheat a dog and i am a woman......i wouldthink automatically there are problems/issues/different standards in the relationship need to fix them or move on.....

[Anela]

women dont need a personality nor confidence to get laid or get a date. she can be dumb or the most boring person ever. it doesnt matter. she is still getting dates. a guy with confidence will still face rejection compared to a woman who has no personality. most of the women cant get a relationship since they dont have a personality. eventually they will curse mankind but never themselves. why dont u guys get it? women dont need to do anything to get a guy. they can wink at the guy at a bar and say boring things like what do u do, where do u live, ask 50 questions and still get laid. if a guy does the same boring routine he is going home alone with no digits. women choose in dating. women are like a company that receive 25 resumes/day from men.

 

women can have sex with 20 guys tonite without saying a word. men have to work for it. thats y men get props for getting a date or getting laid. men work to get it, women are born with a silver spoon. if women were competing to get brad pitt on a date and they were competing with angelina jolie than that would be even. men are easy. women are picky. dont read/listen to a word women say on these forums. every woman here has dated an ahole. so what does that tell u? look at the statistics. if u want to get a date and every woman has dated an ahole...that means in order for u to get a date u have to be an ahole? ur right. white men are open to dating indian women, asian women. white women are not open to dating asian men nor indian men. get the point? women always choose in dating unless they are competing for brad pitt. im surprised u even bother reading the replies women type here. 80% women are sleeping with 20% men. get it through ur head

 

I feel like you've studied with the bitter men here, and summarized everything they've taught you.

[betterdeal]

women dont need a personality nor confidence to get laid or get a date. she can be dumb or the most boring person ever. it doesnt matter. she is still getting dates.

 

And what a swell life that must be! She has no personality or confidence, but she's getting laid, so that's alright then.

[Anela]

And what a swell life that must be! She has no personality or confidence, but she's getting laid, so that's alright then.

 

And with any guy who comes along, too. No need for mutual attraction or friendship/companionship, and if a guy sees himself as lowering his standards in order to sleep with me, so much the better! It's what I always dreamed of as a little girl.

[Kamille]

women dont need a personality nor confidence to get laid or get a date. she can be dumb or the most boring person ever.

 

Why are guys dating girls with no personality? Shissh. Have they no standards?

 

eventually they will curse mankind but never themselves. why dont u guys get it?

So why is it mostly men who curse women on this site? Is there something they're not getting? Like... oh, I don't know, maybe it's not all women's fault?

 

 

 

every woman here has dated an ahole. so what does that tell u? look at the statistics.

 

That there must be a lot of ahole out there?

[Oxy Moronovich]

Completely true from my experience. There was one British male celebrity, I can't remember who as they aren't famous here. He was posting pics of woman asleep, his conquests without their permission. He was bragging about it and guys thought he was a champ and only encouraged him. Men started copying him too. But you never see women do this. They would be labeled a slut of coarse. Funny about that.

 

 

--a woman will tell every last detail of her sex life to even the most passing acquaintance (his penis size; sex positions; and even the color of his underwear) and have no problem with this.

 

--when a man tells details details about his sex life, he's a pig and a braggart.

[Mme. Chaucer]

Women will get away with what you allow them to get away with. Simple as that.

 

It sounds as if you like to take on a parental role with women. How do you find any women that want to participate in that with you?

 

Since I left my parents' home, I haven't been "getting away" with or "allowed" to do stuff by other adults. I'm in charge of my own life, my choices and the consequences of those. Your perspective sounds really weird.

[Mme. Chaucer]

--a woman will tell every last detail of her sex life to even the most passing acquaintance (his penis size; sex positions; and even the color of his underwear) and have no problem with this.

 

--when a man tells details details about his sex life, he's a pig and a braggart.

 

Oh, come on. Now you are just being a clown.

[Mme. Chaucer]

women can have sex with 20 guys tonite without saying a word.

 

Are you talking about a woman who was slipped a roofie at a frat party and who is semi-conscious in a bedroom while 20 guys pull a train on her?

 

Virtually no woman would find that to be desirable.

[betterdeal]

It's true, women are wont to call men bastards. The trick is to be a lovely bastard.

[Mme. Chaucer]

It's not about stopping people from doing anything, it's about what you're willing to tolerate. If im in a relationship she can sleep with other people, nothing I can do to stop her. I can, however, kick her to the curb.

 

I assume that's what he meant.

 

That I agree with. But that is about YOU and what you want in YOUR life, not about "letting" another person do or not do something.

 

I'm not splitting hairs. If my husband was unfaithful to me, I believe I would leave him. But it's not in my mind even remotely that he is faithful because I don't "let him get away" with, or "allow" him to be otherwise.

 

We are both equally choosing how to behave and how to respect the parameters of our relationship, and we will both equally face the consequences if we break our covenants.

[Art_Critic]

Yeah, I'll get right on that.

 

You are in charge of your own future.. let your friends drag you down.. that one is on you...

We pick our own friends and influences.

[Kamille]

--a woman will tell every last detail of her sex life to even the most passing acquaintance (his penis size; sex positions; and even the color of his underwear) and have no problem with this.

 

Yes. In Sex in the City. Oddly enough, not every woman is a reproduction of SJP and none of my friends share those kinds of details about their sex lives.

 

--when a man tells details details about his sex life, he's a pig and a braggart.

 

Well, since you clearly think all women take their cues straight out of SITC, perhaps we should assume that the locker room talk epitomized in so many sitcoms is how all men behave all the time, happily bragging about their conquests and making comments about women's body parts?

 

Yes. In sex in the

[Mme. Chaucer]

It's true, women are wont to call men bastards. The trick is to be a lovely bastard.

 

I guess there is actually a double standard here, since women are very rarely called "bastards" by anyone.

 

Not fair!!!!!!!!!

[johan]

I don't know what there is to gain from thinking like this. Or posting these things. Especially not when there is nothing new or original being said. I guess it's ok if you're trying to show off your lack of originality. But the drum is getting a bit worn.

 

By posting these things are you helping your own situation? It seems to me you're just keeping yourself down.

 

And you aren't enlightening anyone with new information in a way that makes their life better or helps them make better decisions. At best you're creating a class of grouchy guys who like to make excuses for their failures with women. Some of them will have less success than they would have otherwise, because of their willingness to think like this.

 

If you want to think of yourself as, and portray yourself as, a failure, then you have to live with the fact that that's what people will see you as. And no one really cares who you try to blame for it. People who have lives are going to go on with their lives as if you don't exist, because you have nothing of value to add.

[todreaminblue]

women dont need a personality nor confidence to get laid or get a date. she can be dumb or the most boring person ever. it doesnt matter. she is still getting dates. a guy with confidence will still face rejection compared to a woman who has no personality. most of the women cant get a relationship since they dont have a personality. eventually they will curse mankind but never themselves. why dont u guys get it? women dont need to do anything to get a guy. they can wink at the guy at a bar and say boring things like what do u do, where do u live, ask 50 questions and still get laid. if a guy does the same boring routine he is going home alone with no digits. women choose in dating. women are like a company that receive 25 resumes/day from men.

 

women can have sex with 20 guys tonite without saying a word. men have to work for it. thats y men get props for getting a date or getting laid. men work to get it, women are born with a silver spoon. if women were competing to get brad pitt on a date and they were competing with angelina jolie than that would be even. men are easy. women are picky. dont read/listen to a word women say on these forums. every woman here has dated an ahole. so what does that tell u? look at the statistics. if u want to get a date and every woman has dated an ahole...that means in order for u to get a date u have to be an ahole? ur right. white men are open to dating indian women, asian women. white women are not open to dating asian men nor indian men. get the point? women always choose in dating unless they are competing for brad pitt. im surprised u even bother reading the replies women type here. 80% women are sleeping with 20% men. get it through ur head

 

You are on the wrong site i hope that you are i think there's plenty of bdsm sites you can spout your i am master crap and favourite phrase at the bottom of your post i am sure a submissive would appreciate your phrase.....i dont however.... i find it offensive..... ....I threw up a little bit in my mouth when i read it......you also posted that "woman pretends to be a man" post where a woman degrades other women online daters.... so believable ....anyway if it is appropriate for you to post crap like you do without being asked to remove it.... its time for me to say toodles loveshack .....we will see i guess....

[betterdeal]

I guess there is actually a double standard here, since women are very rarely called "bastards" by anyone.

 

Not fair!!!!!!!!!

 

Yes, but you can't throw very well so it all evens out.

[Els]

Oh, come on. Now you are just being a clown.

 

Oh come now, how can you not believe him? I disclose the size of my bf's schlong to the first person I meet on the way to class every morning! Nothing beats the look of shock on their face, not even the morning coffee.