Brokendude Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 I take care of business at work, school etc and fairly say strong and alm that but i still cant deal in the morning time, this is just too much in the, i hate the fact dumpers get a head start in healing when they emotionally check oit, i hate that theyre doin better because they had time to grieve this already, i feel so helpless right now and wouldnt wish this pain on anyone
NoneoftheAbove Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 I take care of business at work, school etc and fairly say strong and alm that but i still cant deal in the morning time, this is just too much in the, i hate the fact dumpers get a head start in healing when they emotionally check oit, i hate that theyre doin better because they had time to grieve this already, i feel so helpless right now and wouldnt wish this pain on anyone Stay strong, we all felt that pain and some of us still do. You have to take care of yourself in order to move on. Take your time, go slow...
bosox Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Mornings are the worst. I've woke up at 4 am everyday since the bu. I don't know what the answer is but I think I'm going to try giving myself something to do right away. Maybe that way that's what will be on my mind. Right now I relate everything to where she is and what she is doing. I know what time she wakes up, goes to work, etc.
hopelessromantic29 Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 This might sound stupid but remind yourself everyday especially before you go to sleep at night that you're only feeling this pain bc you are capable of loving someone that much. Rest assure in this fact bc that's what women want... A man who can love n accept them. Clearly, she wasn't right for you bc she gave up on u. It'll get easier as the days progress. I do that every night n it's gotten easier. I hope this helps. 4
whywhy Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Brokendude. I feel for you so much man. I go through the day with work and feel as if I took a step forward, but every morning I wake up and feel like its been two steps back.
antelope82 Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Ya. Just woke up and feel like crap. I dreamt she wanted to get back.
bosox Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 I used to love coffee in the mornings but can't drink it anymore. My body is still on high alert and the mornings even more so. I can't wait for the day when mornings are relaxing again.
CopingGal Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Peach tea is relaxing to me and it taste so good. But I can't drink tea any more. Deep breathing relaxes me too.
Occu3.14'd Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 I know exactly how you feel. I feel like I've been to hell and back over the last week and a half. Waking up is miserable, but as the day goes on, it gets better. With time - and I keep telling myself this - you'll notice that it's not the first thing on your mind each day, and that you will feel better.
Chi townD Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Dude, I feel ya! Mornings were the worst for me as well. But, I promise you that one day you will wake up and she won't be the first thing on your mind. That's when you know that you've started to heal.
penguin23 Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Hang in there brokendude. Mornings are definitely tough for me...I can spend half my day recovering from them. At some point this will get easier for us! In the meantime remember that we're here for you.
Author Brokendude Posted July 19, 2012 Author Posted July 19, 2012 I wanna cry just reading u guys pour ur support, i feelso broken inside but im fighting sooo hard, i think my body is accepting and knows shes never coming back and its really over thats y no matter how i self help i get knocked down on my butt, at least im not in denial i cant wait to plow through this, ty guys so much really needed u guys today
Author Brokendude Posted July 19, 2012 Author Posted July 19, 2012 I tried to distract myself and randomly read my horoscope on todays paper, mine read " just go with the flow, things will work out for the best.." can this be anymore fitting?
bosox Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 That's awesome! Little signs you are going to be just fine. Just have to be looking.
penguin23 Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 I tried to distract myself and randomly read my horoscope on todays paper, mine read " just go with the flow, things will work out for the best.." can this be anymore fitting? i love it! great timing too.
Thisisbs Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 I wanna cry just reading u guys pour ur support, i feelso broken inside but im fighting sooo hard, i think my body is accepting and knows shes never coming back and its really over thats y no matter how i self help i get knocked down on my butt, at least im not in denial i cant wait to plow through this, ty guys so much really needed u guys today I feel like crying reading this too ;/. Mornings are ****, as soon as I feel the gut wrenching sadness kick in, I get up and start my day. Shower and try to do something to get my mind off of it. Goodluck man!
SeventhFloor Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Yeah man, mornings are the worst. You wake up and just have those thoughts, and those feelings. My ex doesn't, because she's waking up next to someone else. Those still-asleep, eyes-half-closed kisses she used to get, coupled with the first smile of the day - I hope she's missing those. Damn I miss those. You're not alone. We're all here with you, buddy.
antelope82 Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Yeah man, mornings are the worst. You wake up and just have those thoughts, and those feelings. My ex doesn't, because she's waking up next to someone else. Those still-asleep, eyes-half-closed kisses she used to get, coupled with the first smile of the day - I hope she's missing those. Damn I miss those. You're not alone. We're all here with you, buddy. i miss those already. only been 2 days of NC though. hope it'll get better. i sleep with my little puppy now.
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