Mary Oak Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Well, I have posted on here about a week ago. My girlfriend and I are still broken up, together 7 years. Monday, she feel and got a concussion, which has left her feeling very confused and tired. We talked constantly through the injury and trauma, and she kept me updated on all events instantaneously. SHe is still staying at her sisters house. SHe says she is just sleeping and resting. I just want to help. Feels so helpless. Now, for sure, I know this is no time to communicate about the hope of our relationship. BUt, even though this awful event as happened, it still consumes my mind. Now, more than ever, I want to be there. I have joined a gym. ANd for the hour and a half a day, I have my thoughts off her, but other than that I am consumed by the thoughts of us getting back together, what happens if we don't, what our future hold apart, how I can win her back.... etc. ANy thoughts would be helpful. I don't really have anyone to talk to.
youdunsay Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 You can try chasing her again? Like what you used to do in the past? If she's worth the long-term, don't give up.
Author Mary Oak Posted July 19, 2012 Author Posted July 19, 2012 I have told her over and over again how much I love her and want to work things out. Now, I feel if I keep telling her, it will just put pressure on her. I guess what I really want is for her to WANT to come back. I am scared this time apart is making her move farther away. We own a house together that we would have to sell, and with the market the way it is, that may be a long time down the road. SHe always says some form of...maybe someday.... but someday could be ten years down the road?
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