stemac Posted October 16, 2012 Posted October 16, 2012 @antelope82/ My heart goes out to you mate, what she did was totally heartless, I can't believe how some people treat people who love them like **** What the hell is this world coming too, how cruel some people can be antelope82 you really really are better off without this girl, she will Go through life doing the same to others, you have had a lucky Escape, I know it not feeling like that at the moment, I'm going through Heart break too, it's a terrible thing to go through, I was in a really dark Place I'm starting to come out of there now:) life goes on and you start To see the person for what they really are!! If you need to talk LS the place to be We are all here for you 1
Author antelope82 Posted October 16, 2012 Author Posted October 16, 2012 did i mention how much money I have to spend now? before her to after her is like a +$1500-2000 swing in additional income per month. Nice. no more paying for her to live at my place, her food, going out, double the pet food and vet bills, etc etc.
Chi townD Posted October 16, 2012 Posted October 16, 2012 Yeah, normally if an Ex hears how well we're doing, it usually pisses them off. Some come back to say, "Why couldn't you be like this when we were dating?!?!" And, in your case, they try to come back with some of the stuff that they're doing with their lives to try to make us jealous. Key word here is TRY. All they end up doing is making themselves look like an idiot. You're doing all the right things except for two things. One, you know it's over. So, you really need to be in full NC. Sounds like you're almost fully heal...but....not....quite...there....yet. Like, you're on the cuff of it. The second is jumping out of an airplane! What the hell are you doing? Jumping out of a perfectly good aircraft and depending on a piece of nylon/silk to keep you alive!
Author antelope82 Posted October 16, 2012 Author Posted October 16, 2012 Yea I actually don't try to to tell her anything. She tries to pry it out of me. Me: I went out this weekend. Her: with who? Me: Does it matter? Her: Just tell me! Me: Some girl. Her: Who? Me: You don't know her. I just met her. Her: Oooooh, did you make out and sleep with her? Me: No. Her: Too bad. Me: I'm not trying to sleep with whoever the first girl I see is. It's stupid conversations like this that really tick me off, because she never thought like that before until we broke up. Anyway, yea skydiving is pretty freakin' fun. I totally recommend it. It made me feel really really good when I did it, and I had no fears at that point, as it was only a week and half after we broke up when I did it. We had talked about doing it for a while but never had the time to do it and we were going to wait til her 30th. Too bad. The irony is, I work as an aerospace engineer, so I help design these airplanes to jump out of.
flitzanu Posted October 16, 2012 Posted October 16, 2012 Yea I actually don't try to to tell her anything. She tries to pry it out of me. Me: I went out this weekend. Her: with who? Me: Does it matter? Her: Just tell me! Me: Some girl. Her: Who? Me: You don't know her. I just met her. Her: Oooooh, did you make out and sleep with her? Me: No. Her: Too bad. Me: I'm not trying to sleep with whoever the first girl I see is. It's stupid conversations like this that really tick me off, because she never thought like that before until we broke up. Anyway, yea skydiving is pretty freakin' fun. I totally recommend it. It made me feel really really good when I did it, and I had no fears at that point, as it was only a week and half after we broke up when I did it. We had talked about doing it for a while but never had the time to do it and we were going to wait til her 30th. Too bad. The irony is, I work as an aerospace engineer, so I help design these airplanes to jump out of. why again are you even talking to her?
Author antelope82 Posted October 16, 2012 Author Posted October 16, 2012 why again are you even talking to her? tried to be friends with her, didnt work. we have some circumstances where i'm trying to stay in limited contact but i'm probably going to give that up now. i dont want to talk to her anymore. and started yesterday. she knows it now. 1
Author antelope82 Posted August 19, 2013 Author Posted August 19, 2013 it's been a little over a year since this "story" occurred, and now I have to report that me and her are back together again. I don't really know how it even started but we started hanging out again, after about 11 months, and things started to click again. We've both changed a little bit, and I think, both improved ourselves, and while not everything is perfect, we are both happy right now together. I think this time around, I'm going to try to take things a little slower this time and really test our relationship. I've already tested on how she behaves in certain situations (not being lazy-situations) and she's definitely acting differently this time. She says she likes that I am not so nice to her as I used to be. (weird, but I get it...) Anyway, we'll see how this goes. So far, I'm happy again. Now the hard part of re-entry into my friends... 1
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