danielle_rae Posted July 9, 2004 Posted July 9, 2004 Um ok people i REALLY need help here!!!! How do you know if a guy REALLY is in love with you??????
DerangedAngel Posted July 9, 2004 Posted July 9, 2004 If you trust him, and he says he is and acts like he is. If he's using you for sex, move on. If he hits you, move on. If he is emotionally abusing you, and making you feel ugly/unloved, move on. No matter what he says. If he can walk the walk, chances are he does love you. -DA
Author danielle_rae Posted July 9, 2004 Author Posted July 9, 2004 how should he act if he does love me?
nicki Posted July 9, 2004 Posted July 9, 2004 1) his word means something. he generally calls when he says he will, does what he says he is going to do. 2) he listens to you he remembers things you say. 3) he is genuinely cares about what concerns you. 4) he smiles at you. he looks into your eyes, and you get a good feeling. 5) he hugs/holds and you feel loved. 6) he wants to know about the people in your life. kids, parents, brothers... 7) he makes references to you both as "we" or talks about plans a few months out or longer 8) he cares about what you think about him
Author danielle_rae Posted July 9, 2004 Author Posted July 9, 2004 wow thanx for you help i feel better now!!
justdoit12 Posted July 9, 2004 Posted July 9, 2004 hmm, this is confusing me more! he does all of those things... my post is " I need advice bad !" aggghhh
Author danielle_rae Posted July 9, 2004 Author Posted July 9, 2004 well yea im confused a lil i mean my boyfriend does all those things but sometimes i just wonder if hes considering cheating or something, or if its just infatuation
nicki Posted July 11, 2004 Posted July 11, 2004 okay, then how about asking him? or tell him that you love him first...sounds to me like you want to hear the words... if he acts like he loves you, then that feels much better than someone saying it and not acting like it at all...but, of course, it's nicest to have both... so ask him how he feels about you, and/or tell him how YOU feel about him...
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