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Is there any behavior women do in dating that is unacceptable?


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I think I know what you mean, OP. Example: a guy says he dumped his gf because she's had sex with too many guys. Some male posters will say he's right. Some male posters will say he's wrong. Then it looks like all female posters say he's wrong. So while men are divided on the issue, women appear to be unanimous.

 

I agree. That's what it looks like but not always what it is. Many times there are women who disagree with what other women are saying but they do not voice it. Why? Because they'll get cut down for disagreeing with other women. I've seen this on LS alone dozens of times:

 

A woman will virtually say, "I agree with what the men are saying."

 

The other women will cut her down saying, "I really don't like listening to such women. They really tend to post a lot of idiotic things." And post some really personal attacks. Then the woman who agreed with the men will virtually disappear from the thread.

 

It basically comes down to female relationships, which means go along with other women: if you throw out a dissenting opinion you'll risk getting cut down by another woman and ostracized from the group. As a result, you got other women who don't necessarily agree with an issue keeping silent or pretending to agree.

 

You mean the same way a bunch of you guys like to taunt any men who doesn't kowtow to your agenda by emasculating him? (Saying he's not a "real man" and only saying that in the hopes of trying to please the women for instance?).

 

Because I see that happen way more often than I see women cutting each other down when they disagree.

 

Face it, you misogynists keep putting women on trial here on this forum. We have the right to defend ourselves. I don't see a tenth of the threads created where it is men who are put on trial. I don't see women asking men to be held accountable for the actions of every single men out there with the same regularity you guys (the misogynists, not all guys) start your countless threads.

 

You put all women on trial and then accuse them of not being accountable for their action when some of us take the bait and defend women. It's a winning rhetorical strategy really.

Edited by Kamille
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