Bad_Feeling Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 GF dumped me over 60 days ago. Have gone no contact from day one. It was a LDR, West coast East coast We were very much in love, and wanted to spend the rest of our lives together. She would tell me that I was made just for her, and that I was the man of her dreams. Could not go one day without talking to each other. We would text, email and talk via telephone on the average of three times per day over a two year period, and visit every three months. The break was quick and clean, no drama. My question is this, how can a woman be so in love one day, and say goodbye forever the next. Does she still care? Does she think of me? Is there a chance she might try to contact me? Going on day 70 of absolute No Contact. Would like a womans opinion, or anyones. Thanks.
bosox Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Not a woman but my guess...She met someone new at some point. Not saying she cheated but it got her to question the long distance. Finally she decided to move in a new direction. I'd say she thought about it for a period of time. Does she still care about you? I'd say yes for sure. Seems women move on and don't look back. I'd do whatever you can to do the same and I know it's not easy.
Author Bad_Feeling Posted July 19, 2012 Author Posted July 19, 2012 That is what I thought had happened. Thanks
penguin23 Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Seems women move on and don't look back. I think a lot of women would say the same about men;) I say she definitely still thinks about you but I don't think she'll contact you. Do your best to move on. Good job on the NC.
The Tallest One Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Bad Feeling, sorry this has happened to you, I know it's really hard to deal with. LDR's are extremely difficult for both and this situation happens more then you know. Try your hardest to move on. You can't control whether she contacts you or not. I wouldn't contact her at all though. She ended it so it's up to her if she wants to return, and it's up to you whether you take her back. Be strong, hang in there, you will get through this no matter the outcome.
Author Bad_Feeling Posted July 19, 2012 Author Posted July 19, 2012 Thanks to everyone for the advice. The problem is with me and not her. I am still madly in love with this woman. Wish I could shake it, have tried everything, keepinh busy working many hours and going to the gym 4-5 times a week. This bad feeling has to end soon. I hope.
Samilia Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 I don't think it's the sole quality of a woman, or of a man. We're just people. As a person when a relationship is over I respect, or go, no contact because it's just easier than way. Why putting myself through more pain? What's the point? That would be why.
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