tuxedo cat Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 I love my boyfriend dearly but he is a bit immature. We are late twenties. He is a couple of years younger than I am, and abut to start a 2 to 3 year grad program. He tells me he loves me often but I don't know how serious about me he is. We are in an exclusive relationship and have been for awhile. I want to settle down and get married eventually and I can't tell if Im wasting time with him. When I've brought up the possibility of marriage before he says it's premature and he's not ready to think about that yet, which makes sense given where his life is right now. I'm willing to wait for him to be ready, but I'm just worried Im wasting time and he'll never be ready. How do I know? By the way we have a generally really good relationship and I feel more towards him than any other man I've dated. I would marry him in a heartbeat if he was willing.
veggirl Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Well how long have you been together? Maybe you *are* bringing up marriage (as in the two of you getting married) too soon..?
Author tuxedo cat Posted July 19, 2012 Author Posted July 19, 2012 Well how long have you been together? Maybe you *are* bringing up marriage (as in the two of you getting married) too soon..? almost a year.
amantis Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 You are wasting your time Even if he doesnt want to marry in the next 2 years , he should know what he wants from a relationship . You know what you want , he isnt even thinkink about the future with you , so move on , dont waste your time
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