shanemike88 Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 I won't make this long so basically I dated a girl for about 6 months and around May she broke up with me. The signs were there prior she became distant, made excuses to not go out etc. Well at the beginning of this month I met up with a college friend who I haven't seen in years. It turns out the one date turned into 5-6 dates later and everything is going well. Nothing insanely serious but we're having fun with each other and enjoy our time together. Anyway a picture of the new girl and I surfaced on facebook and the old flame saw it. I got a text this past Sunday from her that said "cute girl" ( referencing the new lady...and she isn't cute she's gorgeous) I didn't reply that but I should've! Anyway I was caught off guard by the text because it kinda sent me wrong signals. Why would it bother her since she cut me off?? We really haven't spoken much until the last few days and I feel its all because I'm seeing someone new. Thoughts??
january2011 Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Perhaps she wanted to make a dig or let you know that she knows. Perhaps she was being sincere. Who knows? No good can come of a behavioural analysis of the ex's actions. I suggest: ignore, NC and block. You have a new girl. Focus on her.
AH1990 Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 I won't make this long so basically I dated a girl for about 6 months and around May she broke up with me. The signs were there prior she became distant, made excuses to not go out etc. Well at the beginning of this month I met up with a college friend who I haven't seen in years. It turns out the one date turned into 5-6 dates later and everything is going well. Nothing insanely serious but we're having fun with each other and enjoy our time together. Anyway a picture of the new girl and I surfaced on facebook and the old flame saw it. I got a text this past Sunday from her that said "cute girl" ( referencing the new lady...and she isn't cute she's gorgeous) I didn't reply that but I should've! Anyway I was caught off guard by the text because it kinda sent me wrong signals. Why would it bother her since she cut me off?? We really haven't spoken much until the last few days and I feel its all because I'm seeing someone new. Thoughts?? She expected you to be chasing after her. But you're not. She expected you to be begging for her back. But you're not. Within a couple months, you found someone new, you obviously like each other, and to top it all off, she is pretty gorgeous. I can see how that would piss your ex off. She knows that she isn't a priority, and she can easily be replaced. I wouldn't doubt for one second if she starts asking you to hang out, or saying how much she misses you. My advice is just to stop talking to her. You're going after another girl now, and there is no need for you to be involved with your ex.
Author shanemike88 Posted July 19, 2012 Author Posted July 19, 2012 Thanks everybody! The thing is me and this ex don't hate each other even though we broke up we still talked once in a while. I never got into my personal life with her and I didn't want to know about hers. I guess since we remained friends in a way I just didn't think that she would've taken a dig all because I am seeing someone new.
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