Debs2990 Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 Me and my boyfriend just broke up and I have no inkling why it happened. I think I have been anything but nice and yet he still treats me so harshly. For him, I started learning how to prepare meals, wash the dishes, wake him up every morning through calls and pack his backs before his holiday trips or camps. Due to stress from both sides of our lives, quarrels get more frequent and just today he told me he wants a break up. He uses harsh words and told me he regrets being with me and called my a crazy physcotic bitch. And well, that's the end of us. Why can't he cherish me? Why can't he stand by me like he promised? Lies. All lies. I'm never going to invest in love anymore.
penguin23 Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 He sounds like a jerk. He should have treated you better than he did. Focus on yourself now. Good luck!
blotter Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 Why did you keep investing when he wasn't reciprocating? You must have problems setting boundaries or something. I'll give you an example, I didn't know I was dating someone who was emotionally unavailable. I was investing a lot into the relationship, BUT once I figured out it wasn't being reciprocated, that her investment wasn't as much as mine, I pulled back. I pulled it back to the level that she was investing. These are things you have to recognize in a relationship otherwise you will be taken advantage of.
Samilia Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 Me and my boyfriend just broke up and I have no inkling why it happened. I think I have been anything but nice and yet he still treats me so harshly. For him, I started learning how to prepare meals, wash the dishes, wake him up every morning through calls and pack his backs before his holiday trips or camps. Due to stress from both sides of our lives, quarrels get more frequent and just today he told me he wants a break up. He uses harsh words and told me he regrets being with me and called my a crazy physcotic bitch. And well, that's the end of us. Why can't he cherish me? Why can't he stand by me like he promised? Lies. All lies. I'm never going to invest in love anymore. Did you throw in his face the things you were doing for him that weren't reciprocated? In which case, why do that in the first place? Why did you become someone's maid?
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