Immortal Posted July 8, 2004 Posted July 8, 2004 I'm going to try and make the summary as quick as possible: I have dated this wonderful girl for the first 2 years of college. The first year we were inseperable--did everything together. It was almost unhealthy. We got together right as college began, RIGHT after she had broken up with her boyfriend of 4 years. This last quarter of school we grew apart. Before we spent all our free time together, but I joined a club that required a heavy time committment. And soon enough, we would see each other maybe once every other day for a couple of hours, maybe spend the night together. You have to understand, we had this brilliant connection. We related on everything. Fast forward to this past May...I yelled at her one day stupidly about spending time with me when I wanted to spend time with the guys in my club. She started crying, and we broke up. The following week, we get back together. This is off and on until 2 weekends ago, when she makes out with another guy at a party. We then break up soon afterwards. Now, she tells me that she's been in a relationship for 6 continious years now, and she wants time to be single and see other people. She is planning on studying abroad next year, so I told her that we would have the time to be single then. Yet she insists that her whole heart won't be in the relationship until she's had time away from me. She wants to be single...independent...find herself. The common cliche is that you don't realize what you have until it's gone. And this holds so true for me. This past week we've been broken up for real, and she has made little to no attempt to contact me. She is hanging out with friends a lot, having a good time seemingly, and is going on a trip to Mexico next weekend. I on the other hand, am physically sick from this. I can't eat, sleep, or function properly. My parents are worried sick about me because I look clinically depressed. Yet here's my idea...she mentioned to a friend that she wanted a month off to figure out what she wanted in life. And I'm thinking that from now until the end of July, I will try to end all contact with her, even though it's so difficult for me. And at the end of the month, with her friends' help, I am going to serenade her by singing one of her favorite songs with candles and roses nearby. I just want to know if you guys think this is a good idea and a legitimate possibiliity. I know I should allow her to date other people, but I held our relationship with high regard, and if she sleeps with someone else, I couldn't be happy with her again. It's just the way I am. Also, do you think she could forget about me in the next 3 weeks if I stop all contact with her? Thanks so much and I'll keep you guys updated on the situation. -John
hurtingandconfused Posted July 8, 2004 Posted July 8, 2004 I am going to serenade her by singing one of her favorite songs with candles and roses nearby. Sorry but I believe that this is not a good idea; it's too late. Also, do you think she could forget about me in the next 3 weeks if I stop all contact with her? She will never forget you.
Author Immortal Posted July 8, 2004 Author Posted July 8, 2004 Why don't you think it's a good idea? And why is it too late?
lick Posted July 25, 2004 Posted July 25, 2004 You no who you better sing a damb song to or you won't be able to see who your singing to. lick
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