NIGHTSCOUT Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 Hi. I am a married man, and there is a woman at work, that smiles every time she sees me, and always keeps eye contact when we talk briefly. She sometimes tells me how she plans to go to the gym after work, tells me about her weekend, and asks about mine. I never initiate these talks, she does. I am extremely attracted to her physically. She is also married. I am interested in having a physical encounter with her, but without commitment, since we are both married. Now please, i am not asking for the pro-marriage people to call me names, and call me a cheater, thats not what i am here for. Keep those accusations for another thread. I want someone to advise me how i can tell this woman that i want physical, but in a way that i wont get a sexual harassment case against me? I live in California.
jeffmeyers Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 Or... go to a hooker or go to a complete stranger outside of your work and avoid the problem altogether? P.S. Cheater. 1
Casablanca Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Or... go to a hooker or go to a complete stranger outside of your work and avoid the problem altogether? P.S. Cheater. This, don't dip the pen into company ink Hope you're not a believer in Karma as it will come back to bite you
phoenixflyhigh Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Come on... get a life.. isn't this getting outdated "relation without commitment"..
stillafool Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 Are you serious? You seem like an adult man to me so why can't you just ask her? Be ready, for the ax to come down hard on your reputation, your job, your marriage and hey you may lose them all and have to ask yourself, was it worth it?
january2011 Posted July 19, 2012 Posted July 19, 2012 You're putting both your marriage and job/professional reputation on the line for what could turn out to be just a quick and unsatisfactory fumble. What is missing in your current life that makes you think that this is a good idea and that you need to act on your feelings? Everything that you've mentioned just sounds like normal work colleague banter to me. It doesn't even sound like you two spend a lot of alone time together such as lunch or drinks after work. What makes you think that she's giving you special treatment, likes you in that way, and would be open to being propositioned by you, thereby risking both her marriage and her job/professional reputation? 1
ScienceGal Posted July 20, 2012 Posted July 20, 2012 I'm sure it's exciting and the fantasies are driving you wild, but be prepared for reality. If this is what you want, then just tell her. Then be ready to lose your job and your marriage. Pretty simple.
Author NIGHTSCOUT Posted July 21, 2012 Author Posted July 21, 2012 Disgusting. Says the teenager who takes pictures of herself in a bathroom mirror LMFAO
Author NIGHTSCOUT Posted July 21, 2012 Author Posted July 21, 2012 Thanks to 1 or 2 people who actually answered my question, and no thanks to the rest of you trolls who disregarded my request.
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