whoknows11 Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 Backstory http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/336127-here-we-go-again Today i woke up feeling different. Like i could care less about her. It seems so easy now not to contact her. I havent thought of her as much honestly either. Besides thinking of her without her promise ring on or thought of her flirting with other guys possibly/doing something with another guy. But i didnt think of it much really at all. It was good for once to not really panic inside or feel so miserable. I really do miss her so much though. Every feeling is still there. I could just be drained now mentally and emotionally from everything. Ive been talking to/seeing my friends lately. Im hanging with a good friend of mine tomorrow that i havent seen since school. Im also going to get my haircut/new clothes this week possibly to work on apperance. Seeing the new batman with friends and sportsbar for ufc. I know i gave you guys my schedule, i apologize. But im hoping it takes my mind off of her for a bit. Cause i know she isnt going to contact me anymore. So ive been leaving her alone. Not to mention i see my counselor monday. Could be things starting to get better, like the hurt starting to pass. Or i fear its just a phase and ill go back to being miserable again.
AlexanderJames Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 Hey mate good for you! Don't apologise for giving us all your plans. It's good! Tell us more about what you look forward to doing with your mates and what you have planned and less about how much you might miss your ex. The less you express these thoughts the less you will feel them Good on you for taking big steps in the right direction. From experience over time this high will plane out and you'll start feeling down for a day or two but just remind yourself that you've come a long way since the early days and in a couple of days you will be feeling amazing again. There's always a couple of low days before the new high comes along. hang in here bud. Good to hear things are getting better. A sign of more good things to come
AlexanderJames Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 Also I want to add that I see a bit of myself in this post. It sounds a lot like a post I put up maybe a month and a bit ago. A few weeks before all the most recent **** happened to me. It means you are definitely on the right track big guy. So keep it up.
Author whoknows11 Posted July 18, 2012 Author Posted July 18, 2012 Hey mate good for you! Don't apologise for giving us all your plans. It's good! Tell us more about what you look forward to doing with your mates and what you have planned and less about how much you might miss your ex. The less you express these thoughts the less you will feel them Good on you for taking big steps in the right direction. From experience over time this high will plane out and you'll start feeling down for a day or two but just remind yourself that you've come a long way since the early days and in a couple of days you will be feeling amazing again. There's always a couple of low days before the new high comes along. hang in here bud. Good to hear things are getting better. A sign of more good things to come Thank you. I was just about to post on your thread. But i do believe this high will surely go away. Cause honestly i wish id hear from her. But i know theres no chance at all. Especially if you read the last thread i posted in the beginning of this. I mean i miss her more than anything. Still have all the love,feelings,etc. but theres nothing i can do. Im just leaving her alone like she wanted.
Samilia Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 Thank you. I was just about to post on your thread. But i do believe this high will surely go away. Cause honestly i wish id hear from her. But i know theres no chance at all. Especially if you read the last thread i posted in the beginning of this. I mean i miss her more than anything. Still have all the love,feelings,etc. but theres nothing i can do. Im just leaving her alone like she wanted. Seems to me like you're almost ashamed of feeling better. I don't know why it's giving me this vibe. Anyway, good to see you back on track and keeping busy! If you do relapse a little, no worries, it will pass too!
flitzanu Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 Backstory http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/336127-here-we-go-again Today i woke up feeling different. Like i could care less about her. It seems so easy now not to contact her. I havent thought of her as much honestly either. Besides thinking of her without her promise ring on or thought of her flirting with other guys possibly/doing something with another guy. But i didnt think of it much really at all. It was good for once to not really panic inside or feel so miserable. I really do miss her so much though. Every feeling is still there. I could just be drained now mentally and emotionally from everything. Ive been talking to/seeing my friends lately. Im hanging with a good friend of mine tomorrow that i havent seen since school. Im also going to get my haircut/new clothes this week possibly to work on apperance. Seeing the new batman with friends and sportsbar for ufc. I know i gave you guys my schedule, i apologize. But im hoping it takes my mind off of her for a bit. Cause i know she isnt going to contact me anymore. So ive been leaving her alone. Not to mention i see my counselor monday. Could be things starting to get better, like the hurt starting to pass. Or i fear its just a phase and ill go back to being miserable again. sounds like a good start bro, just keep the faith keep up what you're doing.
AlexanderJames Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 Yeah I read the linked thread. The girl doesn't deserve the wasted tears and sleepless nights bro. Don't worry about how she feels and what she does. She's not the type of girl you want in your life anyway. That sharp tongue of hers will push away everyone she ever gets close to. There are lots of genuine and nice ladies out there waiting for a man like you to sweep them off of their feet. We're too young to be caught up in this crap. Your a nice guy with a big heart. And that's a big deal to women who are actually mature. You'll find someone worth your devotion in time dont you worry. Just enjoy the now and live a little. Have fun and see what things come your way
Author whoknows11 Posted July 18, 2012 Author Posted July 18, 2012 Yeah I read the linked thread. The girl doesn't deserve the wasted tears and sleepless nights bro. Don't worry about how she feels and what she does. She's not the type of girl you want in your life anyway. That sharp tongue of hers will push away everyone she ever gets close to. There are lots of genuine and nice ladies out there waiting for a man like you to sweep them off of their feet. We're too young to be caught up in this crap. Your a nice guy with a big heart. And that's a big deal to women who are actually mature. You'll find someone worth your devotion in time dont you worry. Just enjoy the now and live a little. Have fun and see what things come your way Youre right. Ive taken a beating since we broke up from her. Yet i took it and still had the hope shed come back. But after my previous thread, its clear shes gone. I just feel embarrased and weak. That feeling i had that i didnt care for her or anything. Cause it went away already. This no contact is hard. But i know she wants nothing to do with me and to leave her alone. I just know i tried. That i did everything i can to make things right. Idk why, but through it all i still dont want anyone but her. Something i know isnt going to happen. Especially of she ever ended up doing something with another guy or ended up with one. But ill never know. Either way, its done..
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