hopplegobble Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 hey Never reallc turn to blogs for help but dont know were else to go maybe some 1 here will give me a honest answer. So basically my girlfriend of 4 years has split up with me we have a 2 year old child together. when we first started goin out we were mad bout each other simply in love. nd 9 months in to relationship she fell pregnant. It seemed everything went downhill from dere we never spent time together ,constantly fighting etc. so afta 2 years of hell she called it a day . at first i was kinda relieved in a way as in i was much happier, no fighting and we worked around things so we both had time with our son. its being 5 months now nd i really beggining to miss her. and i kinda want her back. i dnt know why do? is it that i remember start of relationship and see how good and happy we were then? every day is gettin worse? soi asked her back nd tld her i want a fresh start like we first were. and allher reply for d last 3 weeks is i dnt know ? . and the odd time i get a message saying i miss you . Im really confused ? should i keep fightin for dis girl or move on ? and if i keep fightin for her whats d best way to win her back ? Thanks :sick:
hinatticus Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 I'm in a similar situation. 4.5 years, 2 year old son, 5 months post break up. I thought I was on the right track. Now I don't know. I had some major issues that I needed to work out. So I spent the majority of this time fixing myself and being friendly towards her. Now I'm in very limited contact. I'd say if you value family and you still love her, fight for her until there is no fight left. I consider it like a boxing match. I want to fight til the end. Right now I'm in my corner rethinking strategy and healing.
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