Seethe Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 I'll keep this pretty short ...been dating a woman for about a month now, been out on 5 dates. She happens to live with her (apparently very) conservative/religious parents as she's looking for a new job. Note that she's in her late 20's but well, parents will be parents at any age I guess. We get along splendidly and there's a strong attraction between the two of us. Last night we were out, one thing led to another and I ended up sleeping with her. We tried to be quiet but apparently they knew (they always know) and now she's probably hearing about it from her parents. Note that it was her idea to go back to her parents' place..not mine. I genuinely like this woman and feel a connection with her, I'm just not sure what I should do in a case like this.. In one sense I'm really sorry that she has to deal with this right now. Not sure how to handle this or what I should do in this type of situation.
paperboy48 Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 Maybe it turns her on to do it with people in the other room. I used to like to do it with my MIL in the next room.
veggirl Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 How do you know they know? Why are you worried about this? Your girl is a grown woman, she decided to invite you over to her parents house, that's on her, what do you mean what should you do? You could text or call and be like "hey hope all went well with your parents, guess we should avoid that situation again" or something if you want, I guess. Personally I wouldn't bring it up. and obvs next time just go to your place...why did you not do that to start with?
Author Seethe Posted July 18, 2012 Author Posted July 18, 2012 Maybe it turns her on to do it with people in the other room. I used to like to do it with my MIL in the next room. Maybe...I don't think that's really the issue here though. My question is: Is there anything I should be doing in this situation?
Author Seethe Posted July 18, 2012 Author Posted July 18, 2012 How do you know they know? Why are you worried about this? Your girl is a grown woman, she decided to invite you over to her parents house, that's on her, what do you mean what should you do? You could text or call and be like "hey hope all went well with your parents, guess we should avoid that situation again" or something if you want, I guess. Personally I wouldn't bring it up. and obvs next time just go to your place...why did you not do that to start with? She told me they know and her mother is "Mad as hell". She lives 50 miles away from me, going all the way back to my place was not a viable option at 1 AM. Yeah obviously that will be the first and last time we have sex there. God knows how her parents are going to react to this in terms of the next time we meet. I haven't done much of anything, I just told her that when she gets a chance later to call me. My thoughts are pretty similar in that there's not much I CAN do at this point. I was just wondering if I was wrong for thinking that. I guess not.
mortensorchid Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 Maybe you should bring her over to your place if and when. You live by yourself, don't you? 1
Quiet Storm Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 This takes me back 20 years to age 16, when my husband's mother caught my husband and I. His room was in the basement, and we heard her walking down the stairs. Pearl Jam's "Black" was playing. It was pitch black dark in the room. I was naked and wrapped myself in his comforter and squeezed between the bed and wall. My face was covered and I couldn't see, but she grabbed my foot! Really hard! I stuck my head out, she gave me a half smile, and shook her head and left the room. We never spoke of it again. We pretended like nothing happened and ended up getting along great. She has been gone for awhile now, and I miss her. Maybe pretend like nothing happened?
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