sal110104 Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 I have been casually dating a guy for a month or so. I know he is bad news: No real job, I think he deals drugs, just overall kind of shady. He dissapears for days at a time - only to resurface with what sounds like plausible reasons for not being in touch. Problem is the chemistry between us is amazing & he is such a smooth talker - he can make me swoon with just a look and a smile. I know I need to cut him loose - he isnt a good fit for long term relationship - but how do I stop thinking about him?? I literally cannot get him out of my head - no matter how much I tell myself what bad news he is - I have even written things down & posted them on my mirror so I can see it. Everytime I start thinking of him - I try & force myself to think of something or someone else - its just not working! What the hell is wrong with me? Any tips on how to get him out of my head??
StrangeBehaviors Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 Picture him grunting on the toilet. Wiping that azz. Honestly, you just haven't been with the person long enough. I have never, NEVER, seen the endorphin rush-honeymoon phase not fade away for two people. It always fades and if there is not some other substance there, the relationship is doomed. You have proven there is no substance and you are only living off of emotion. Not logic. Woman. I said it.
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