lovers Posted July 17, 2012 Share Posted July 17, 2012 so me and a friend decide to go to a japanese restaurant for dinner. my ex and her bf and their friends were inside a booth unknowingly and we were seated near the bathroom. i was eating and i see my ex walk towards the bathroom and her bf walk in the bathroom later. then they came back together to go the bathroom. we had a really nasty break up, where she was kinda toxic to me. i was so uncomfortable there that i was shaking a little. each time when they walked past i kinda looked down trying not to make eye contact and so they wouldnt see my face. i dont know how to handle myself in that situation. and for some reason it really messed up my mindset afterwards. how should i have acted? was putting my head down really submissive? Link to post Share on other sites
edelveis Posted July 17, 2012 Share Posted July 17, 2012 No matter what happened or how the break up was next time try to act cool and confident.show your strong character and let her know by your acting that you've moved on and you are living your life happily without her.there is nothing worse for an ex. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Samilia Posted July 17, 2012 Share Posted July 17, 2012 eh.. don't beat yourself up, she saw a guy who didn't want to talk to her. Funny that they had to walk back to the bathroom together again Link to post Share on other sites
Sugarkane Posted July 17, 2012 Share Posted July 17, 2012 I would try and act confident too even if I didn't feel so. Even more so as my exes are Aholes. Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted July 17, 2012 Share Posted July 17, 2012 Going to the bathroom several times in one sitting in a restaurant only shows me that they were both trying to rub it in your face or they have major bladder problems. I think you handled yourself well and didn't outwardly show that it bothered you. The only thing they accomplished is to show how childish they can be. So, good job. If you're concerned about he whole affair, you can be a nice guy and send her a box of Depends in the mail! Link to post Share on other sites
Radu Posted July 17, 2012 Share Posted July 17, 2012 so me and a friend decide to go to a japanese restaurant for dinner. my ex and her bf and their friends were inside a booth unknowingly and we were seated near the bathroom. i was eating and i see my ex walk towards the bathroom and her bf walk in the bathroom later. then they came back together to go the bathroom. we had a really nasty break up, where she was kinda toxic to me. i was so uncomfortable there that i was shaking a little. each time when they walked past i kinda looked down trying not to make eye contact and so they wouldnt see my face. i dont know how to handle myself in that situation. and for some reason it really messed up my mindset afterwards. how should i have acted? was putting my head down really submissive? Go in front of a mirror. Close your eyes, empty your mind, imagine all the little ****ty things she did to you, and imagine that she is someone else's problem. Open your eyes, and look in the mirror, if you are not smirking then smirk. Do it several times untill it becomes natural. This kind of thing will transform her thinking from 'ha, the little bugger still hasn't gotten over me, i'm awesome' to '****, he got over me so fast, and with another girl ... she looks good, is she better than me ?'. Off-course, if your friend is male, just think about the awesome time you two are having. It will hurt less for her, but it will still hurt. When she calls [and if you do the above she will call], just be cold ... unfeeling. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lovers Posted July 18, 2012 Author Share Posted July 18, 2012 i havent seen her in so long. it just ****ed with my mind that time. i had my head down when they walked over twice. i probably should have just looked up and show i am having a good time. my thinking was i hope they disnt see me or notice me there lol. Link to post Share on other sites
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