Hawk12 Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 My gf of roughly 4 years broke up with me about a month ago. She said she was confused and didn't love me anymore. She also said that she didn't think she has loved me for the last year of the relationship and doesn't know why because she knows how great of a guy I am and that I would do anything for her. I knew things were not going well the last year as she would always snap at me and get drunk and run me down and I probably should of acted on them but I guess I was just scared of losing her. I have since moved out and went into no contact, she has texted me once a week just asking how I'm doing and what not I simply reply back with short messages and leave it at that. I saw her for the first time the other day and it devastated me. Just looking for some advice on how to move forward. Thanks
whywhy Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 I'm in the same situation of 5 years. The feeling of heartache is the worst thing in the world. This was a women that I moved to a different state, new job etc and now my world is upside down. The only thing for me to feel normal is working out or running. Maybe this will help you?? Also call your friends and catch up with them, especially ones that you have been out of contact for a bit.
Author Hawk12 Posted July 17, 2012 Author Posted July 17, 2012 Thanks, I have been reading about gigs and I think this what she was going through as she is in early 20s and just started her career and told me she was confused about life. Does that make sense ? And if so I think the best thing I can do is just keep backing off.
Sameold Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 My ex is 24 and starting out in a big new company. Shes done the whole "I think we want different things" and all that too. Maybe it is GIGS, it feels like my ex is going through that but even so we can do is NC. When someone ends it they have to be the one to fix it. No small talk or breadcrumbs. They need to want to talk about the relationship, everything else is irrelevant. 1
Author Hawk12 Posted July 18, 2012 Author Posted July 18, 2012 Sounds similar same old, im Definitely leaving the ball in her court by going nc and it does make me Feel better. It's just tough sometime to not want to look at her fb page or here my friends talk about what she was doing on the weekend and so on.
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