Gulf-Delta Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 Thing is there's a big possibility my ex and her new guy will be there. OTOH my friends are saying I should try to get with some other girl they know, but she has on/off relationship issues (with the same guy) every month or so.... IDK, would you guys go....it'd be nice to get out and maybe talk to this new chick (though, she's never shown any interest in me) but I don't know if I can handle seeing my ex with someone in person.
tryingtodiscoveranew Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 Thing is there's a big possibility my ex and her new guy will be there. OTOH my friends are saying I should try to get with some other girl they know, but she has on/off relationship issues (with the same guy) every month or so.... IDK, would you guys go....it'd be nice to get out and maybe talk to this new chick (though, she's never shown any interest in me) but I don't know if I can handle seeing my ex with someone in person. I think it's absolutely a bad idea to go somewhere knowing your ex will be there with someone else. I don't care how much over her you think you are. Seeing her in person can be difficult enough. Why put yourself through extra misery if you don't have to. It's not like it's a funeral that you must attend. The fact that your questioning it also shows that you're not ready. Let us know what you decide.
Author Gulf-Delta Posted July 17, 2012 Author Posted July 17, 2012 I think it's absolutely a bad idea to go somewhere knowing your ex will be there with someone else. I don't care how much over her you think you are. Seeing her in person can be difficult enough. Why put yourself through extra misery if you don't have to. It's not like it's a funeral that you must attend. The fact that your questioning it also shows that you're not ready. Let us know what you decide. And that's why I asked....but I also feel like I shouldn't let my fears or bad feelings prevent me from having fun you know?
Moonchie Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 Your heart being ripped to friggin' shreads will cancel out the son.
Coffee20 Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 I wouldn't go there. It would really kill me to see my ex with a new girl. Maybe if I am completely over....
nevadagirl Posted July 18, 2012 Posted July 18, 2012 It's not a matter of "letting" your ex prevent you from having fun. Your ex WILL prevent you from having fun. It'll suck. Do not do it. Do you know how many parties/clubs/downtown events I have missed in the last year afraid of running into my ex? Probably a lot. And I'm way better off for it. Go somewhere else. You already know this. 1
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