ICE911 Posted July 17, 2012 Posted July 17, 2012 My situation is this......girlfirend had broke up with me in Feb of this year. After a bit of time apart she wanted to talk. She asked me if I would agree to see a couples counsellor. I said yes......but that was never done. She has excuses that seem somewhat valid, for not going. However, I believe if it was important enough she would find a way to go. She has 2 kids full time. So ever since February we have been hanging out minus the sexual stuff. I told her I will only have sex if we were in a relationship and not doing "the song and dance". I said I was looking for substance and not just sexual gratification. She once told me I was a pig(while we were going out) because she felt all I wanted was sex. So I figured if I proved to her that I am not a pig and am willing to withold from sex and want a relationship first.....that she would know I wanted her and not just her body. That being said she claims that I have to many expectations and that I am always picking away at her about this and that. I asked her why she cant say we are in a relationship when we were doing almost everything that couples do (minus the sex part) ......her response was "at least if we are not boyfriend and girlfriend you cant expect to get the type of treatment that we usually get in a relationship" She just doesnt want the title. I tried to text her and call her......but she is flat out ignoring me. What can I do to get her back and want the "title". She is pretty awesome and I want to be with her. If we are able to establish contact again....how do I go and get her and let her know that I "am not doing the song and dance". It's either going to be a relationship or nothing at all? got in a huge fight today and I think she will be breaking up with me.
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