nonameone Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 I'm coming up on the 1 year mark, however I took his breadcrumbs up until a month or so ago. He called me the affair-lady's name. He then confirmed he would like to be in a relationship with her. I then told him our friendship was over. I have no urge to contact him. I doubt he will contact me. The no contact this time is more final and less painful. I feel better but still have obsessive thinking about what happened. The way things happened for me was so devastating and shocking ( found out about the affair and then he told me he loved her and he didn't love me.). This coupled with a few other major losses crushed me. I've never had so much pain. I obsess about so much. I hate everything about him and I'm so jealous and envious of her. She now gets my house, my boyfriend, my life. What I can share is this: I feel much better doing NC, with our last interaction there was a new finality to it. I wish every one here the best. Now off to trying to actually do some work.
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