LostGirl11 Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 In a nutshell my ex wants me back and I want him back. We have been broken up for about 3 months now but in that time he has gone on a date. (I haven't) I didn't ask too much about her, maybe I should have? What do you think? Anyway, I did ask the usual things like, how the date went, ect, he told me that she wants to see him again and that shes a nice girl but he doesn't feel the things he felt for me. I don't know what to do, I feel angry for some reason, if I took him back I don't think I'd be able to forget the fact that he went out with someone, and I'd be constantly worried about him contacting her. I do have trust issues. Am I just be stubborn or have I got a good point and reason to worry? Is it all too messy? Or am I being a drama queen?
k100danny Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 I'm totally with you on this. I know for a fact I couldn't let that go. I wouldn't be second prize for anyone, and if you have to go and see what is out there to decide if im good enough then I'm sorry but you're not the one for me. I know i have dealt with break ups hard the last couple of times but I know that as much as I would like them back in theory, what I actually want is the old relationship which has long gone and will never be the same again. I know I couldn't feel the same about them again.
Author LostGirl11 Posted July 16, 2012 Author Posted July 16, 2012 I'm totally with you on this. I know for a fact I couldn't let that go. I wouldn't be second prize for anyone, and if you have to go and see what is out there to decide if im good enough then I'm sorry but you're not the one for me. I know i have dealt with break ups hard the last couple of times but I know that as much as I would like them back in theory, what I actually want is the old relationship which has long gone and will never be the same again. I know I couldn't feel the same about them again. I think you're right. He's kind of spoilt things now.
blotter Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 Maybe you should work on your "trust issues" before even attempting to get into a relationship with anyone?
Author LostGirl11 Posted July 16, 2012 Author Posted July 16, 2012 Maybe you should work on your "trust issues" before even attempting to get into a relationship with anyone? Thats not really the point is it, I'm asking for advice on the situation at hand, not my trust issues
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