Jack D Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 Hey, I absolutely love the girl that I am with. There is no one I would rather spend time with and we are inseparable. The thing that really gets me is that I never thought I would tolerate lies in a relationship. However, I have given this girl many chances after she has lied to me. A lot of stupid lies that made no sense to me...she said that she was trying to not make me upset but these are seriously the littlest things that wouldn't have made me upset at all. I like to keep most of my feelings to myself even if I am a little upset. I don't feel like I need to vent or whine about it. For the last month or two, I thought we were on a great path and I kept telling her how proud I was of her. How I appreciated her being honest with me. Then I find that she is taking diet pills (had substance / alcohol abuse problems very recently). She promised to never take those again and yet she does. I also saw her get a call from her ex while she was sleeping and I was working. Her screen lit up and I ended up looking at her text and saw that he texted her calling her baby. He lives in a different state so there is nothing physical between them. I love her to death and I have done everything for her. I put her happiness above all else and she is the same. I know she loves me as much as I love her but why would someone lie to the person they love? She knows that I can't take the lying anymore. Is she testing how far she can go with me? (Doesn't seem like the type of person to do that at all.) I can't ignore this because it is lies on top of lies and I don't want to see her hurting herself with these pills anymore. Any advice is appreciated. Break-up? Give her one more chance? (Not sure I can do this.) Only talk to her about the pills? Bring up that I saw the texts? Thanks again.
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