raven1589 Posted July 8, 2004 Posted July 8, 2004 Hi! I have been dating this guy for 9 months. We both are happy together. We have lots of things in common, so we can talk for hours. The problem is my mom said something bad about his parents, it made me upset because I know that it wasn't true. I told my boyfriend and he got really mad, I expected that but I wanted to be honest about it. Well, a few days later he pretty much got put in a situation where he had to tell his parents, they were really mad and they didn't want us to be together anymore. So, he broke up with me on Monday, but later that day we got back together. It just felt so different, I feel really bad about it. It still hurts that he broke up with me even though we are still as of now together. I talked to my mom and made her admit she was wrong to say that about his parents(I couldn't tell her I told my bf, she'd get mad). Well, my bf told his parents she was sorry and stuff but they are still kinda mad. Another thing was that they aren't really mad at me, but sorta because i'm kinda shy around them. My bf said if I came to his house I would have to not be shy. I'm not really scared of his parents I just don't know what to say. So if any of you can help with that. The main thing that is still bothering me is that it seems like we don't have conversations like we used to, I may be just thinking to much into it since it's only been a few days since Monday. It stiil kinda hurts to that he broke up with me even though we still are together. I don't really know what'd wrong with me. I just feel kind of like i'm a lower person than him since my mom said that stuff, because it made him really mad. He says he still wants to be with me and cares for me alot and I care alot about him too. I guess I just need advice on what to do and if you think this relationship would last and why I feel so bad?
koala bear Posted July 11, 2004 Posted July 11, 2004 You need to explain to him how you feel and that you know your mother was wrong. But he has to move on if the two of you want to be together. And, you need to remember that sometimes thing change and sometime you just run out of things to say. He problaby shouldn't have told his parents. Adults will normally hold a grudge longer even if they know she was wrong. I hope things do work out for you. good luck
Josephs Posted July 11, 2004 Posted July 11, 2004 well, first off, your mother is a coward for saying things that are untrue about his parents (assuming these facts are untrue) you must realize this-- also, she has no place sticking her nose in your business with your boyfriend. But next time she has something nice to say about anyone, just say thats nice, and let it roll of you. As for you and your b/f, if he says that he wants to be with you, and you feel the same way, than no outside distractions, ie. parents should affect you guys. Just go on your way like it used to be, and this little episode will fade away, and at least you can attempt a shot at your realtionship without outside influences.
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